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It's okay. There has to be a silver lining somewhere. I just emailed my dad to see if he would be willing to cosign, I figure the worst he can do is say no.

I guess we will see...


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Hey Lola,

No don't give up! Maybe getting your own car now is just what you need.

Just remember how positive things are with your H every time something like this gets you down...

Also my guess is your friend has no idea that you feel like she is kicking you when you're down...

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I don't know. But I have already talked to H twice this morning...

I am not sure what is going on here, but maybe this was the kick in the a$$ I needed to get myself going.


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(((Lola)))
I'm sorry that you have another thing to add to your list. Remember, you are well able to handle all of this. You're a very strong lady.

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(((Dan))) thanks. But it is okay. I don't know why, but I have a feeling that the man upstairs is really watching out for me. It may have taken me hitting bottom to be able to pull my life together.


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(((Lola)))

Don't worry somehow it will work out the best way. I mean it is messed up that she said you can use it and now is back peddling especially since the car has just been sitting there since May!!! Whatever!! LoL. You know what the crazy thing is that I learned through all this is that the ones you thought would kick you while you're down are the ones to help you back up and vice versa.

Don't be too harsh on Rose maybe she told you that you could use the car before she even checked with her H and now it's causing problem with them.

No matter what, you will figure out a solution and be A-ok!! \:\)


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(((Lola)))

Sounds like you are keeping a great attitude despite the problems you are facing! That's half the battle right there. \:\)

Glad that your H and your family are being so helpful. I hope your dad agrees to cosign, although I'm sure you will manage something regardless.


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I just heard back from the car company, they said I could get the car today w/ cosigner, so just waiting to hear from Dad now. Pray hard!!!!!


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Fingers Crossed and a prayer was said!!!


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Crossing fingers and toes!


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