Whats new guys? I haven't been around very much, I'm not really sure why.
H asked the trolls Dr. about doing a paternity test in the room when the baby is born and I guess the Dr. went off on some tangent about "Well, if you don't get the results you are hoping for, will this baby be loved any less?" and I guess a bunch of other stuff that was just overly dramatic. So there was that on Wednesday or Thursday of last week. Then on Sunday, the troll was all mad about something and was having text-a-palooza with H. She sent him a txt saying, "Lets just say the paternity says your not the dad. You don't owe me a dime, but don't ask to see the baby." WTF? She says she is willing to do the test, but by the end of the day on Sunday, he would have to find a way to do it himself and a bunch of other stuff. For someone who is 100% sure that he is the father, she certainly is making this hard. Now he has to sneak and do the test shes not afraif of?
Anyway, they have drama...makes me laugh, but its just sad.
H went to see his IC last week and has another appt for next Monday. He seems to like the guy and he told MIL that he realizes that he is 5 months behind where he could/should have been, but that was an interesting little revelation.
DS and I got into it last night. My heart just hurts for him. Its so hard on them and I understand how sometimes its easy to lash out, but I get tired of being the one to have to take it. I do have some sympathy for the kids on the other teams we have played. Saturday DS was on fire. He sacked the QB, had numerous tackles and really big plays. At one point the announcer said,"Its big number 50, man that kids a beast!" He also threw in a couple of comments about watching the highlight real on ESPN...DS had a really good game. We lost, which sucks, but he played so hard! You can really see his heart and drive on the field. I have also told DD about her dad's "friend." She knew, but she doesn't want to think about it and doesn't want to talk about it...fair enough. She is doing ok, seems to be having some trouble at school with her concentration. I'm going to talk to her teacher and see if she can move her or maybe make more of an effort to stop the talking around her.
Thats pretty much whats been going on in my world. Taking DS to see Kid Rock tonight. After last night I probably shouldn't, I don't believe in rewarding bad behavior, but I also found him on the couch this morning, listening to http://au.youtube.com/watch?v=imJBq0b9Qjg this song and crying his eyes out. It broke my heart. He played this part twice before I realized he was crying:
Come back home, you know, the place where you used to live? Used to barbecue burgers and ribs? Used to have a little party every Halloween with candy by the pile? But now, you only stop by every once in awhile...[censored]... I find myself just fillin' my time, Do anything to keep the thought of you from my mind. I'm doing fine, and I'm planning to keep it that way. And you can call me if you find that you have something to say.
Last edited by Sugar and Spice; 09/16/0807:08 PM.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
