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hugs sweetie!!
ok I used to work in a ob/gyn office, and those bumps? NEED to be seen by an ob/gyn or a real dr who will listen. not trying to scare you, but i have seen what they actually look like working there. (I saw so many things omg) Have you called the dr and explain just this, my H is having an affair, and I think I have an STD, we would get women like that in asap. If that doesnt help, call your local HEALTH DEPT. most states they offer those services there also.
I am so sorry for what this has to be doing to you right now. But you need to be cleared for everything asap.
hugs sweetie

I agree, call the GYN back. I know it is embarrassing...
but I called after I found out about H's A last winter. I wanted blood tested and checked for STDs ASAP. I told them the truth of the situation and they got me in within 2 days....good luck

Thanks for your concern. The good news with me health wise is that I am on day 2 of the anti-biodic and the itching and pain is totally gone. So if nothing else, at least I can feel more like myself and do my job without constantly feeling awful. I have a GYN appointment for Sept 25. There is a huge shortage of these doctors in my area due to malpractice. Almost everyone has left and only a few remain. So getting is difficult. But I am going then. Although there isn't a bump to look at anymore...

I am sure women want to get tested for STDs due to their husband's fooling around on a regular basis. However....it doesn't make it any less embarassing or make me feel better. I guess I should have had this done months ago. I didn't feel like I needed to.

(((Sara))) been there, done that...twice. Those were two of the most humiliating experiences of my life, but in the end, it was only for me. This isn't anything you did and isn't a reflection on you. Its a shame that you are still having fall out from this whole thing.

Saw the thread title and had to show my support. ((((hugs))))

Hey sweetie, when I worked there, you have no idea how many women just came in for regular paps, and found out they had something. (pastors wives even) it was devastating seeing how broken women were. From working there, first thing I did when I found out about an A was make an appt asap. Rather be embarressed than have something get out of control you know?

now for a giggle for you, this woman came in who had stole my ex boyfriend years ago in high school. thats what she did, steal other girls boyfriends. I remember her saying if you would put out, it wouldnt have been so easy for me to take him away and have him. (I was still a virgin) anyways she was horrified that I worked there, I was the one who got to call her and tell her that she had herpes!! sounds silly, but i really enjoyed making that call lol!

LMAO!!!!!!

I know right? omg talk about karma? I mean it took a LONG time to have it bite her, but it sure did! I said so when I call in your script for the meds to the pharmacy, dr so and so said we can call it in for your husband too, she started stuttering and all kinds of stuff! then said NO! and hung up lmao!

Well I have my doctor's appointment in about an hour. I have doing well all day but now I am scared. I don't want to know if I have an STD. I am so scared that I do and I don't know how I will react. The problems that I have been having all all gone away once I ended the antibodics. I am not longer having the pain and discomfort I was having. However, the bumps are still there...well all but the largest one that fell off. I know something isn't right. I don't want to be punished by my exh's affair any more...

(((Sara))) hang in there sweetie. We're here for you. I know how you feel about the continuing punishment of anothers actions, but this is for you and your health.
Your in my prayers.

Thanks S&S. I am just scared right now. Once I know what is going on...regardless of the outcome, I think it will be better. The fear of the unknown is the worst. Remember when you didn't know for sure if your spouse was cheating on you? When I found out the truth, even though it was not a good outcome, I felt so much better. I hope this is the same way. Although I really hope that the bumps are nothing.