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Thanks everyone,
Yes, I am definitely reaching a point that I know I have to get tough and divorce him. It's always about my faults, he's yet to to really admit that he did anything wrong. When he half way admits that he is at fault, he always says "Two wrongs don't make a right". He said he thought I would always throw her up in his face. I told him until she no longer worked for him it would be hard not to. I told him recently we needed to get out of this limbo, if he wanted to a divorce let's do it. He still believes I have a lot more changing to do than he does. I don't think he believes he needs to change in any way. Until he realizes this, it is a dead end. I honestly don't see him realizing it.

BabyGirl and Saffie,
Yes my daughter convinced me to read the Stephanie Meyer's Twilight series. I just finished the fourth book. I miss not having them to read now! I'm sure DD and I will be seeing the movie together.

Saffie,
If your 3 oldest daughters like to read, they would definitely like the series. I don't think your youngest daughter is quite mature enough. You can go to Stephanie Meyers.com and tells about the series. You will also enjoy reading it.

Hugs, Yoyo

wow, I feel you, I am so tired of hearing my faults, and does this make sense to you? that when they kinda admit thier fault, they can justify it? UGH I hate that! My H also works with OW. so i know how bad it totally sucks for you!!

LOL my D13 is almost embarressed at how much I liked them! We couldnt afford the 3rd book at xmas time, and she was mortified when we went to barnes and noble, and I stood there reading it while they looked around lol!!
Hey get them at walmart, they are soooooooooo mcuh cheaper!

Nice to meet you Babygirl, just wish it wasn't under such extreme circumstances. I wish you the best of luck. Just try to stay strong and do things for yourself.

I shall go check out the series Yoyo and Baby Girl - thanks.

((((((((((((HUGS Yoyo)))))))))))))

I think your H is a complete idiot.

saffie, they are good promise!

yoyo, yes it sucks that sometimes life happens and brings us to a place like this, BUT, at least we arent alone in our feelings! Have you found anything that helped you get thru the they work together crap?

Saffie,
I can tell he is definitely dreading being around my dad at daughter's homecoming assembly. They haven't seen each other in over two years. It will be nice to see him squirm. My dad is everything that he is not. He is kind, gentle, wonderful husband, father, and grandfather. I'm sure my dad will kill him with kindness, that's just the kind of man he is. Usually, that is more painful than anger!

Hugs, Yoyo

Babygirl,
No, it still makes me angry. He owns the business and she is his secretary, so it's not like he couldn't get rid of her. Although I'm not so sure that she is any longer an issue. I think he just used her to be honest. He's still an a$$ though!

Hugs, Yoyo

TAL,

Thanks for the kind words, you know that I think the world of all of you too!

Hugs, Yoyo