I've read your last post a couple of times looking for the negative - nope! can't find it.
Apart from reading the 5LL book over again, if you are looking for ideas, maybe you could start another thread here asking for suggestions of what other people have come up with? I find that as well as the great help people give freely here asking out-right for suggestions/examples gets lots of response.
Don't want to supply the negative for you but....can I ask if YOU are ready to start a family? I know that is what your W wants but haven't heard you actively say its what you want. I ask because it was a major factor in my own sitch - I just didn't know it at the time.
I will tell you, that yeah Im ready to have more childern. The reason that I am is my R is better than I think it has ever been since our first child. Which came very quickly after we were married. Having another child would be great. I know a couple of months ago that I was against it but I am now see things in my W that haven't been there in a very long time. This time around we are going in with our EYES very wide open. So we know more of what to expect. .
Lee~~ Just stopped by to say hi....sounds like things are going well--I am happy for you!!!
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)
I will tell you, that yeah Im ready to have more childern. The reason that I am is my R is better than I think it has ever been since our first child. Which came very quickly after we were married. Having another child would be great. I know a couple of months ago that I was against it but I am now see things in my W that haven't been there in a very long time. This time around we are going in with our EYES very wide open. So we know more of what to expect. .
Lee
Oops! Sorry, I forgot you already had child (daughter?). So many people to keep up with I often get details confused.
This is great that you feel your R is this good now. Now happily married with a second child on the way really would be a great success story
Just checking in, Lee. Hope things are going well.
Mockers2
"Somehow we survive, and tenderness frustrated does not wither." Dennis Brutus, South African poet
"That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
Friedrich Nietzsche
Well it has beena about 2 weeks since I last posted not much has changed. I have been trying to stay with the no intimacy talk but dont know how much longer this should take before I see more results. Im hoping that they come soon. I have been complementing my W as much as I can on all the things that she does for me. Which has been a lot lately .
I Have been working out a lot lately and putting on some muscle witch is so nice. It helps a lot with confidence for me which is great. Anyway that is about it.
since most of what you are focussing on right now is the physical intimacy part of your m I wondered if you have checked out sooners thread over in the ssm forum?
Yeah I have read a little bit of it. I really am trying to be patient with the whole sitch and figure out what it takes. To get what I need. Aside from that My M is very good.
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