don't do red as that is a love color. i would go with something more neutral such as yellow or pink. have you thought of different flowers?
I am just trying to think of this as what would be considered "non-threatening" or pressure in her mind.
Does that make sense?
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I can't wait to see the movie Fireproof. Wished I could let my W know about it. Thought about sending her an emial saying "Can't wait till Sept. 26th a great movie is coming out." I do wish that she would see it, it would really be nice if a miracle happened and we could see it together. Anyone's thoughts on this?
I have been in touch with my in-laws since the discovery of the A. My FIL disinherited my H from the will and they have not spoken in over three years now.
They are very supportive of me and the kids as is the rest of the family.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Sooners. You send the color of your choosing. In the movie a dozen red roses are sent.
What message do you want to send? I love you or Happy Birthday?
If you love her and you want her to know it then send RED!
What is the worst that could happen? You are expressing how you feel about her.
I would send a dozen roses with baby's breath, color of your choice! Now the card could just read Happy Birthday, Sooners or Love Sooners.
I talk to my in-laws. They are supportive and are amazed by my standing. Even asked if I was dating or I was interested in someone. They think h is being held back by pride and stupidity. H's mom is hurt by h's actions. My h comes from a very loving family. Unfortunately h is not talking with them, his choice. He did talk with his brother the other day when he called our home.
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"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
I know nothing about the movie and I wish we could all see it together.
Glam: my son told me a few weeks ago that yes, it is pride, guilt, ego that holds them back. Not sure how true it is.
And yes, my FIL is amazed that I am still married. He does not think I should be putting up with any of this. He always commends me for holding up so well. If only he knew..........I have had my breaking points.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Sooners, when we got to see the premier I just came out and said h would you like to join me for a movie. I mentioned it was some movie about firemen like an action movie.
I did not mention God and M, which was essentially the jist of the movie. I am sure h was a little shocked when they had all this literature available before the movie began and a local pastor that sponsored the movie came on and spoke before the movie started and we had to complete a survey after the movie.
I have to say that my h was such a good sport about it though. He could have said lets leave.
Not sure if it would be out of the ? to ask your w to go to a movie with you. What are your thoughts on that?
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
