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Glad you survived Craig. Don't focus on the date or the significance of an anniversary. Focus on your interactions with your w.

You are right, tomorrow is another day.

Looks like another weekend with more of the same. Wife comes over and does her laundry and takes d14 to the movies. No talk about her lawyer or the paperwork,just small talk.Worked on the house a little. Powerwashed it, whether my wife ever makes an effort to work on the house to get it ready to sell, I will keep doing the projects in either case.I just don't understand why she shys away from talking about the house.So quick to move on the divorce but fails to engage on the house.MLC

Looks like another weekend with more of the same. Wife comes over and does her laundry and takes d14 to the movies. No talk about her lawyer or the paperwork,just small talk.Worked on the house a little. Powerwashed it, whether my wife ever makes an effort to work on the house to get it ready to sell, I will keep doing the projects in either case.I just don't understand why she shys away from talking about the house.So quick to move on the divorce but fails to engage on the house.MLC

Looks like another weekend with more of the same. Wife comes over and does her laundry and takes d14 to the movies. No talk about her lawyer or the paperwork,just small talk.Worked on the house a little. Power washed it, whether my wife ever makes an effort to work on the house to get it ready to sell, I will keep doing the projects in either case.I just don't understand why she shys away from talking about the house.So quick to move on the divorce but fails to engage on the house.MLC

I am sure some people can relate to this. I am coming to the point ,and it makes me sad, that at times I don't care as much if my wife wants to reconcile. In fact I was praying last night and I was telling the Lord that I was not happy to be feeling this way. I still love my wife, but I find my self attracted to a woman at church. I will never say or do anything about that.But it makes me uncomfortable to have these feelings.

How are you doing Craig? We can definitely relate to the reconciliation.

It's normal and easier to have those feelings towards another. When the one you love and want to spend the rest of your life with is not showing those loving feelings back, could we expect anything less of ourselves.

This is a long slow process Craig. Keep showing love unconditionally and see if you can penetrate that barrier between you and your w.