I love how you keep him waiting! He obviously wanted to contact you because you have been dark. Very well played Sep! However, don't keep him waiting too long because he might catch on.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
LoL!! Thanks, I know I waited til about 7:30 then texted him back but I got no response Maybe he did catch on that I was making him wait. Oh well.... it was a silly thing he was asking for anyway something he knew I didn't have.
So dark I go again until the next text..
Grrr...how can I love him so and want to strangle him at the same time *sigh*
I have often wondered how it is possible to love someone next minute and then hate their guts the next! There were so many times when my husband and I were living together and we would be in the middle of a huge fight and even though we were saying terrible things to each other, I would have a split second where I would wish he would get up and just give me a hug and tell me it was all going to be okay. How insane is that!!! Lol
LMAO!!! Daisy we were the same way.....I could have just been calling him the worst things in the world and in the middle of it I would ask for a hug!! Then again there were times were we would have bad fights, he would walk away then walk back in and act like nothing at all happened and ask something like, "so what are we doing for dinner"...Grrrr it would drive me nuts!!
No, I have learned here that as crazy as yr relationship is/was there are people here that are going through very similiar things and you are not alone.
Daisy! Me too. You know they say that people who don't love each other don't fight
He's a smart guy Sep. He may have caught on. Remember though at this stage "going dark" is a trial and error. One person might not respond to an email or text for a whole day and it works for them but another might not be able to wait any longer than 30 minutes. I know my sitch is diff. cuz I have D6 but I can't go dark. It just doesn't work for me. It absolutely p!sses him off.
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Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Maybe he did catch on that I was making him wait. Oh well.... it was a silly thing he was asking for anyway something he knew I didn't have. 
