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I think you need to accept she doesn't want to come back at this time.

Yes. That is tough though

Tough, yes. But probably necessary, nonetheless.

Puppy

That should be a interesting conversation with this new guy. Him: "Would you like to have a beer with me at the local bar?" Her: "I would like to go but I can't drink alcohol due to my pregnancy, Oh! don't worry I was just a booty-call and he bailed on me once he found out. Oh I forgot I also am a cheater!!"

no clue how someone could move on so fast

BC, rant and vent all you want.
Your wife now thinks of you as a bud. Telling you about OM and then telling you about new guy. Were you just kind of going along with it? It's like she was treating you like her gay friend.

Sorry.

Time to start worrying about yourself. She is gone. If she wants back, she'll come back. Maybe you'll take her back. Until then, just think of yourself and your kids because she's not.

It's one thing to give grace, but I think you need to rethink your position a bit.

I don't know how to rethink my position ? does she think i moved on ? that i want a divorce ? what do I say to her ?

she admits she did me wrong and she is now getting a dose of her own medicine. i respond with "choices are followed by consequences."

honestly the advice I received on here was to make myself seem the more attractive option between OM and I. in the end, he proved himself to be pretty crappy.

what do I do ?