I am in a little funk today....maybe it has something to do with the fact that when i dropped off D7 yesterday at MY old house (you rememnber, the one I pretty much paid for by myself / but i digress), the MIL was there with her new boyfriend....oldest SD with her boyfriend (he seemed like the only one who was uncomfortable and probably the only one who should not be). W invited me in (afetr all she said it is still your house), I stayed a few minutes and was proud of myself because I remained jovial. W and i are scheduled to meet on Wednesday morning to iron out the gorry details (house, bank accounts etc) of our upcoming divorce....should be fun. It is time for me to get a little firmer in my negociations. I don't think W will like it much. She is used to me pretty much agreeing to everything. I will keep you posted......on a positive note, I really enjoyed my time with D7.
Treat all the gory details of the divorce like a business deal. I would have preferred no lawyers for that, but my W is not a business woman and lets her emotions control her.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Lola, I appreciate the suggestion but honestly I am not really in the mood to be social right now. I am not even talking about lady friends either. I am in a little funk and am in my cave. I need to shake it off somehow and soon. Now if I lived close to Kerry, I would head out to that driving range with him.
frustrated by your swing and probably frustrated from those skirts you were talking about earlier. i am sure you aren't as bad as sir charles.....didn't you post a link a while ago? i thoght you were pretty good.....unless that was someone else.
You may want to review Lan's threads for some inspiration.
Hi John
My piecing isn't perfect but we are moving in the right direction. I think a big part of our reconciliation is that my W actually wants it to work, and is working on it, no big Hollywood statements just a slow gradual crawl back to our M. From what I see your W dipped her toes back into your M and backed out for whatever reason, or more accurately created the environment where you would feel you had no alternative to back out.
I don't have any advice at the moment but I'm one of your friends who will keep in touch and keep following your story.
Actually, I have improved quite a bit from the little video I posted a while back. I need practice on how to get out of bunkers now. I took D6 to the range yesterday and both her and Sir Charles could use some lessons. I have heard that Barkley has tried very hard to fix his swing and does ok with practice swings. It is when he swings at that little ball that his brain disconnects from his body.
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