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I'll keep my eyes out for the movie pick and time. (We are all waiting lodo!) It'll be like old times!

how are you doing today? Is pita giving you a hard time? I left a note on lodo's thread that he gets to pick. He is just like a little kid, but it should be his turn.

kat

I guess so, but I'm a little peeved at Lodo--did you notice he just beat us both at that word game btw!!! The nerve!!! Just kidding!!! Yeah, sounds good. I just got a quick email from H this am about the code word (he wants to change them of course to something easier for him to remember).

Just saw the C and was good, I'm down to every 2 weeks now which is plenty. Plan to call the L today and ask her about the OW being with the kids every weekend, but the C doesn't think the L will be able to do much! Frustrating! She thinks the kids will be more like me though and not sleazy like their dad, so hope that is true!!! How's your day! Karen

You are getting crafty, not a single question mark but you still asked a question. lol I am still fighting this dumb cold but it is a bit better today. At least I don't feel as if I am coughing up a lung.

I don't seem to feel a whole lot when I see H. Maybe I have finally been able to put our "book" on a shelf. I still can't believe how ignorant he is about all of the reality but I can't make him learn how to do stuff. I can provide the info and leave it at that.

I haven't been too good at the word game as of late. My head has just been spinning with my cold. maybe it will be clearer this weekend and I can plot my revenge! He is so gosh darn smart though, it will take some smarts on my end.

kat

How about "Dan in Real Life"?

OK by me. What day are we looking at?

kat

I just need a few daya to netflix it--I'll prob. have it in 3 days or so around Monday so anytime Monday or later is ok with me... Karen

Ok, I colored my hair last night. I chickened out and went with the same dark blonde color I actually have, but it did cover the gray and give me a few highlights I think, so happy with it. I told D8 I will go medium blonde next time which is just a shade lighter (if I don't chicken out again).

The L called me today. I go to see her Tuesday and she said we will get it in high gear. I told her H wants to get the financial docs from her when done (she says sometime next week) and she said yeah, he's in a rush or hurry or something. To divorce me which is just kind of depressing.

I discussed with her (had left an earlier message) about H taking the kids and girlfriend out. She didn't sound like there was anything could be done about it, that some people think that's ok or whatever I guess if you aren't actually abusing the kids or whatever. Of course, I think it is hurting the kids but sounds like legally not much can be done.

H is going to take the kids tonight for another sleepover and so he can spend time with them and OW I'm sure. Yuck! Karen

My Fh hasn't done that thank goodness. I don't think he wants them to intrude on his fantasy. Besides they have very negative feelings about her so I hope he continues along this path where they don't meet.

He also doesn't bring her around his parents. As best as I can tell he doesn't talk about her. If this was someone he really thought highly of, you would think he would be shouting it from the roof tops! Just an observation.

kat

((((Karen)))) the pita...I love it!



DAFT does the same thing. He acts like she doesn't exist to anyone else. His mom knows very little, my DS knows of her, my DD knows what little she will accept and the poker tweekers know, but no one else knows she exists. You would think that they'd be dancing in the streets. So strange. I'm just glad I'm not that f'ed up. Maybe I am and I just don't know it. I guess ignorance is bliss!

Just wanted to see what was up.