Sawks, what would be the purpose of removing w from your list of friends? Isn't it your goal to be her friend if nothing else? Don't do anything to hurt her. At this point anything even simple will look malicious.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
Second, wouldn't it make more sense to change it to "it's complicated" or "separated" or even "divorced"?
Third, don't bother trying to hide it. She'll figure it out. And she'll feel how she'll feel. IMHO, tell her yourself. Don't let her find out from the internet or a friend, that'll only make it worse.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Second, wouldn't it make more sense to change it to "it's complicated" or "separated" or even "divorced"?
Third, don't bother trying to hide it. She'll figure it out. And she'll feel how she'll feel. IMHO, tell her yourself. Don't let her find out from the internet or a friend, that'll only make it worse.
My status was " " ..i didn't show it... she changed hers to single so i figured it's no big deal. I am going to tell her about it when she gets back anyways. I do wants to keep things reasonable. Thanks for being that voice Michelle
Plus she allready knows and according to her cousin is fine with it, she was just mad because she wanted to get the upper hand on me and get "moved on" first..
PS Seperated or divorced isn't an option for some odd reason. weird
Hmm, well based on her thing...I'd say changing yours to single is fair.
Again, why would you change your status to in a relationship already? In a couple months...sure. What does leaving it at single/complicated/whatever for a month or two hurt?
Even if she has heard rumors...still give her the courtesy of talking to her. Maybe even give her a heads up that you are going to change your status.
Weird that they don't have those options on there.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Whoa sawks! Are you saying that you consider yourself "in a relationship" already? I thought it was casual, and SLLLOOOWWWW!
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
Hmm, well based on her thing...I'd say changing yours to single is fair.
Again, why would you change your status to in a relationship already? In a couple months...sure. What does leaving it at single/complicated/whatever for a month or two hurt?
Even if she has heard rumors...still give her the courtesy of talking to her. Maybe even give her a heads up that you are going to change your status.
Weird that they don't have those options on there.
Fair enough, my NG told me to wait if I want that she understands the entire sich.. i went and did it anyways. and ya weird those options don't exist
Whoa sawks! Are you saying that you consider yourself "in a relationship" already? I thought it was casual, and SLLLOOOWWWW!
Yep I do, and it is slow and casual. slow and casual is still a relationship..IMHO..
I will reiterate, i was basically S'd a longtime ago, other than weekends, so i think everything comes alot easier to me specifically.
beat me if you must :P
Whoa! I haven't been keeping up....... but...... So, separated some of the time counts as seperated? If it does for you, that's fine, just make sure you aren't rationalizing to yourself. If you are, you might regret it later.
I know what it feels like, by a lot of standards I've been "seperated" for several years, depending on when you want to start the clock. But, in reality, I am not seperated, no matter how I might try to rationalize it. (Of course, I might change my tune tomorrow, but this is the tune I'm singing now.)
Maybe even give her a heads up that you are going to change your status.