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Hi, Tal!

I remember when my two oldest boys started K. I think I had it pretty easy! I was able to go to school with S12 back then, so that helped ease his fear of being without Mommy...and mine of being away from him ! S9, I didn't get to go with him because I had other kids I babysat for, but he was just fine - he soooo loved going to K!

Now...S3 is another story . He is such a momma's boy and really quiet and shy around new people. Hopefully, if I'm able to remain a SAHM, I can go to class with him next year til he gets the hang of it. If not....oh boy! I don't want to even think about it!

Anyway, enough about me!

Hope you have a great weekend and get some nice QT with your H!

(((((Tal)))))

Jak.. its full day K. If its was half day I think I would be ok with it. But he goes from 8:40am-4:25 pm.

I know what your saying about the LL thing. Im going to not get all worked up over it... yet

Hi gf.. thanks for stopping. S5 is my first going to K. Its hard because I am with them 24/7 and he definately is a mommy's boy. They both are but S5 is more demanding of me and my time.

this wkend won't be too great. I dont expect him until Sunday late afternoon and he will be too tired for anything driving 40 hours.

You take care too..

((gf)))

Well, he is almost here, and will probably be bugged out from the long drive. Give him down time, then take it slowly. He is probably apprehensive around you as well, with the long separation.

4:25pm?? Wow. Super long day. Full day here is 8:15am-3:00pm.

Hi TAL,

Today's the day. H comes home. We're all excited for you. I hope his eye is alright. I hope he will let you sit in on the Dr's appt, and find out exactly what's going on with his eye. I'm sure the boys must be so excited.

That is a long school day for a young one. I think having both in school a few hours a day will be good for you. Perhaps it will give you time to feel less overworked.

Hi Lwb&sara... Thanks for checking in..

He got a late start on Sat. So he will be about 4 or 5 am Tomorrow morning. Im getting excited to see him, Its really strange not seeing him for so long. We have never been seperated this long before.

S2 will be off to pre-school in the morning and S5 to kindergarten. We will have a couple of hours quiet time until S2 gets home. His eye is much better and I will definately be going with him to the appt. The only thing is, he will only be home until Wed. then he has to leave again to go to Ohio for 2 days. It just never ends

I am looking forward to the quiet time myself.

Looking at places in NH to go maybe before christmas for 3 or 4 days with the kids skiing. He's excited about it, so I think im going to book it.

Yup its a long day for him. In a wk or two I may just start picking him up. His day actually ends at 3:40.

I probably won't be on for awhile.. so don't worry about me.

Thanks all, your like family to me

Oh well, at least Ohio is close. These long drives out west must be a real killer. Does he do them alone? NH at Christmas sounds like a dream.

He's about 8 hours away right now. I will be scarce for the next couple of days.

He has 2 other guys with him, but he still does most of the driving.

Im hoping the NH trip will ge good. they have horse driven sleighs in town, and lots to do for the kids. We are going to put S2 on ski's this year. S5 already skis so it should be a blast.

Everyone take care and I will be thinking of you all..

TAL

Thinking about you.

I'll have to call you Wednesday as I have a lot to tell ya.

JAK

Thinking of you, Tal. I hope you and H are enjoying each other and finally relaxing.
Blessings.

((((((jak & nocodes)))))

Well im back from hybernation

h got home at about 2am Monday morning, he of course and woke me up He couldn't wait!

We had a nice morning. Sent S5 off to school and S2 started pre-school. So we had the morning alone. We had a really REALLY good time

I didn't realize how much I missed him. Especially since he got hurt and I wasn't there for him physcially. I was overwelmed when he got home, a lot of emotions.

Things have been great, but I always am afraid that something will happend to bring me back down again. I know I have to stop thinking like that, but I can't help it. I hope im not setting myself up to get hurt.

I do love that man so much, I have been being positive as I can and he has too. I hope it stays that way.

He has to leave again on Thurs. Night for another job, but its only for 2 days. Should be home Sat. so I have to absorb him as much as I can.

Thanks my friends for checking on me.