Thats the odd part. Nothing had/has happened to the best of my knowledge...
So strange.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Just got off the phone with my SIL and guess what? Her fathers ex-wifes son (you'll need a diagram, trust me!) was looking on MySpace for a friend (a likely story) and came across the pics of H and OW and the baby and now...more people know.
So, do I tell H that she knows and that others know because of the posted pictures?
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
That is an interesting one. Personally, I would be tempted to tell BUT I think that is rescuing in a way and probably not what would be recommended by many.
What does your gut tell you? What do you want to do?? How do you feel about others knowing???
(((S&S)))
LIS
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No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
That is an interesting one. Personally, I would be tempted to tell BUT I think that is rescuing in a way and probably not what would be recommended by many.
What does your gut tell you? What do you want to do?? How do you feel about others knowing???
(((S&S)))
My biggest issue is that my DD7 DOES NOT KNOW and the more people that find out, the higher chance that someone will let it slip either by accident or on purpose! Thats the only reason I even bring it up. There are people at the cardroom that know and since she is showing (H says she is as BIG AS A HOUSE!) so people draw the automatic conclusion and I feel sorry for the idiot that is the unfortunate soul that breaks that news before its time. I know. My DS knows, but if some guy across the country can find these pictures, then anyone can. This is not good. I just think she should have the decency to take them down.
Is it rescuing or is it self preservation for my baby? I don't know...
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Hmm, I'm inclined to stay out of it...let SIL tell him.
I do understand your concern with D7.
When are you going to talk to her? And when is he going to talk to her? It seems like this is something that needs to be tackled soon so she's not blindsided by it - either by a friend, family member, or the baby arriving.
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When are you going to talk to her? And when is he going to talk to her? It seems like this is something that needs to be tackled soon so she's not blindsided by it - either by a friend, family member, or the baby arriving.
Yeah, I agree, but were you not telling her b/c you think the baby maybe isn't his for sure? That's a tough one! But yeah, being blindsided isn't good! Karen
