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Re: You, me and all of the things we're so scared JenInVen #1576486 08/31/08 04:02 AM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	It would be great if he came, and I hope he will, but I am not expecting it. I plan on going and having a good time. I was going to take D12, but all of a sudden she wants to spend the night at a friend's house, so it may be just me going $;\)$ who knows...things happen for a reason... Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: You, me and all of the things we're so scared LolaL #1576490 08/31/08 04:05 AM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 3,921 Venezuela J JenInVen Member
JenInVen Member J Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 3,921 Venezuela	ummmm so she might be sleeping at this friends house ??? Interesting indeed. Jen The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present The end of the DB road

Re: You, me and all of the things we're so scared JenInVen #1576497 08/31/08 04:09 AM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	I know. It is strange the way this is turning out isn't it? I mean, I wasn't even going to ask him. And I am not sure he is even going. I think I will not read anything into all of it and just go with the flow... Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: You, me and all of the things we're so scared LolaL #1576507 08/31/08 04:11 AM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 3,921 Venezuela J JenInVen Member
JenInVen Member J Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 3,921 Venezuela	yes going with the flow is the very best option. Going with the flow eliminates expectations so it's a great way to take this sudden change of events Jen The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present The end of the DB road

Re: You, me and all of the things we're so scared JenInVen #1576509 08/31/08 04:12 AM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	I told D12 I would think about it. I always worry about her spending the night at friends house because of her ADHD. She can get a little much to handle. But she is also 12, and getting to the "sleepover" stage. I will have to mull that over, but I just might let her. Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: You, me and all of the things we're so scared LolaL #1576520 08/31/08 04:17 AM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 3,921 Venezuela J JenInVen Member
JenInVen Member J Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 3,921 Venezuela	I guess you could always call the mom and discuss your worries. I think that if the other mom knows what to expect and how to handle the situation then you'll feel more relaxed with D spending the night. Jen The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present The end of the DB road

Re: You, me and all of the things we're so scared JenInVen #1576521 08/31/08 04:19 AM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	Well, okay, but I will need you to translate. She doesn't speak English. Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: You, me and all of the things we're so scared LolaL #1576523 08/31/08 04:20 AM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 3,921 Venezuela J JenInVen Member
JenInVen Member J Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 3,921 Venezuela	oh crap!!! Jen The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present The end of the DB road

Re: You, me and all of the things we're so scared JenInVen #1576525 08/31/08 04:21 AM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	Its common being in a border town. I have friends who can translate for me, so I guess that would be a good idea, just so she knows the sitch Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: You, me and all of the things we're so scared LolaL #1576528 08/31/08 04:24 AM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 3,921 Venezuela J JenInVen Member
JenInVen Member J Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 3,921 Venezuela	I guess it would be common to have many people who only spoke Spanish. Miami is like that too. It would def. put your mind at ease if you knew the friends Mom knew how to deal with D is she gets a bit "active". Jen The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present The end of the DB road

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