hope--

I agree, there are glimmers here. I think that maintaining the picture of couple-hood for family and friends is positive, altho frustrating for you, I'm sure. The fact that he is being kind is huge--and it sounds like genuine kindness, not just a facade. And it sounds as if he does enjoy your company, and friendship is a necessary first step. I hope for a Christmas miracle for you!


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012