Bummer about work, but good that you have a job! I hope the learning curve isn't too steep and you get through the week happily!
It is so freakin' hard! Well, maybe not so much hard as just completely out of my element. I am not sure why I got voluntold to do this rather than someone actually in that department. It has really gotten me overwhelmed. Oh well, what can I do? I'll just do my best. I am only one person.
Originally Posted By: BethM
Maybe after a few months things will ease up. That does seem to happen quite a bit. One bad quarter and everyone panics. Hopefully the next one will be better.
Yeah, that happens...although I do work with the numbers and unfortunately there is a good reason for panic. Hopefully next year it will work itself out though.
Originally Posted By: BehtM
For the last year I have belonged to TrueCredit and now I can check my report whenever I get the urge. This really isn't necessary anymore but it's become like my drug of choice. I'm going to have to ween myself off of it. Pathetic isn't it?
Nope Bethie, not pathetic. I am pretty anal myself. I am going to keep an eye on the credit report though. I even got some of OW#1's mail a while back...and she is in a different state. Weird.
Originally Posted By: GoingForward
Talking about Friday already, Michelle?!!! J/k - don't blame ya one bit - I'm looking forward to it, too!
Yay!!! It's finally here!
Originally Posted By: GoingForward
Going to a bachelorette party in Reno this weekend! Fun, fun, fun!
Sounds like fun GF!! I hope you have a great time!
Originally Posted By: M from Tennessee
Kris..the Tide is on the cover of Sports Illustrated this week..pretty awesome article.
I didn't know that, I will have to check it out.
Originally Posted By: M from Tennessee
Have fun at the game this weekend.
I am going to watch the bama game on pay per view....then I'm going to Starkville next weekend to watch State play..Yay! Did I mention I love football?
I called H's apartment complex Tuesday since I had signed for the apartment and I knew he was breaking the lease. I wanted to make sure he had paid what he needed to. He did. Kind of pisses me off that he had 500 bucks laying around to break a lease so that he could move in with a girl he hardly knows when I just had to spend so much freakin' money on that house. Oh well, at least I don't have to worry with it anymore. I guess he is officially living with OW#2. I hope the reality of that situation hits him quick...just like it did with OW#1...he just doesn't learn his lessen.
I am beginning to wonder if he is even working anymore. The past few times I have been by his work (on the way somewhere else, I avoid going by there as much as possible) he hasn't been there. Not sure what is going on with that. I guess none of my business.
Work is killing me, I am so worn down. There aren't enough hours in the day to get everything done. I see working from home at night and on the weekends in my near future. Yuck.
Oh well, I better get back to it. Gonna try to let go, forget about work, and relax this weekend.
I just realized I called XH...H. It's like word vomit. This girl that I had never met before was transferred to this office a couple of weeks ago and when I met her she asked if I was married. It just came out...I said yes...WHY would I do that?? I didn't even have to say I was divorced....could have just simply said no. It was like I had no control over my words! Ugh. I am doing better, but I still hate this.
I still have a hard time figuring out what to say too.
And if I don't think about it when people ask if I am M...my unthinking response is "yes". And then I have to decide whether to correct that, or expand on it, or just move on.
I hope things with work settle down in the not too distance future.
(((Kris)))
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Thanks GF, I hope you had a great weekend at the bachelorette party!!!
Tal, Thank you...you are very sweet, hope you had a good weekend.
Michelle, hope you are recovering from your weekend ok! I guess it is getting easier to say I'm divorced...I'll let people know when I'm ready.
Work is HORRIBLE right now. I am so overwhelmed. I have entirely too much stuff to do and not nearly enough time to do it. Looks like I will be working from home some at night and on the weekends. That is the only way I can keep up. I am on my own today on the new job and I just had a lot of stuff sent to me. It seems the person that sent it has been sitting on it for a week...which just so happens to be the week I was training. That pisses me off to no end. Now I have to do it with no help...oh well, we'll see how it goes. It is pretty sensitive stuff, so it is my head if it gets screwed up. Ugh.
Ok, enough of that. I had a great weekend. Alabama was on pay per view and I went to the club to watch it. There were so many people there!!! So much fun!
The new guy and I are going to a football game this weekend...it will be an overnight trip . I am pretty excited about it. It is where I went to college and I haven't been there since I graduated so I really can't wait. Plus, xh didn't go to college with me and only came there a few times so I don't have a lot of memories with him there..so I won't have to worry about him being on my mind.
I haven't talked to xh in a few weeks, but I did send an email that the insurance is due this morning. He claims he doesn't have internet so we'll see how long it takes him to get back to me. I have been having some VERY strange dreams about him...not sure where those are coming from. I am not really missing him right now. I think I have accepted that he has changed and he can't be ther person I need him to be. I tried. I gave it my all, but he had to want it too in the end.
Yes, very excited about the weekend plans. Last night I went with the new guy to see his neice cheer at a football game. So...I met his mother, sister, BIL, and neice. They were all so friendly. Had a pretty good time.
This morning I had gotten an email from ex MIL. That is the first I have heard from her since I told her that I filed and xh had a second affair. I had been feeling a little sad that none of them had contacted me. Just felt like I was out and OW#2 was in. I am not sure if they have met her or not. Her email just said she was checking in, didn't mention xh or the sitch at all. Nice to hear from her.
Michelle, I can't really remember the dreams. You know how as time goes on you kind of forget them. I just remember waking up like three mornings in a row thinking WTF???...and then being glad it was just a dream. I remember one where xh was kissing another guy! Not sure where that came from, nor did I know who the other guy was. Then another that I was in as well as xh, OW#1, and OW#2....like we were all best friends. Just weird, not sure why I have been dreaming about him so much lately as I haven't talked to him in over a month...and that was only 5 minutes.
Work has calmed down a little today, so I have been able to catch my breath. My boss wants me to keep a log of how much time I spend on these new responsibilities....he probably only wants me spending x amount of time on them as they are for a different dept. So, maybe if it gets too time consuming someone will have to share the misery with me.
It's like word vomit. This girl that I had never met before was transferred to this office a couple of weeks ago and when I met her she asked if I was married. It just came out...I said yes...WHY would I do that?? I didn't even have to say I was divorced....could have just simply said no. It was like I had no control over my words! Ugh. I am doing better, but I still hate this.
. I am pretty excited about it. It is where I went to college and I haven't been there since I graduated so I really can't wait. Plus, xh didn't go to college with me and only came there a few times so I don't have a lot of memories with him there..so I won't have to worry about him being on my mind. 
Not sure where that came from, nor did I know who the other guy was. Then another that I was in as well as xh, OW#1, and OW#2....like we were all best friends. Just weird, not sure why I have been dreaming about him so much lately as I haven't talked to him in over a month...and that was only 5 minutes. 