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Re: You, me and all of the things we're so scared of.. JenInVen #1575410 08/29/08 10:42 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	I know...it was like it was meant to happen! This guy was a buddy of H's in school, also at some point was his academic counselor... Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: You, me and all of the things we're so scared of.. LolaL #1575421 08/29/08 10:54 PM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 3,921 Venezuela J JenInVen Member
JenInVen Member J Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 3,921 Venezuela	I wonder if he'll ask his friend about the party (either before and/or after) :)...guess we shouldn't think about that though. Jen The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present The end of the DB road

Re: You, me and all of the things we're so scared of.. JenInVen #1575423 08/29/08 10:59 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	They don't keep in touch. It was a school thing. I am not expecting anything, but it was a good way to show him GAL, while maybe leaving the possiblity open that he would want to hear the band. When we found out the guy was in a band, we had plans to go see them, but the club they worked at closed so we never could. The option is there, I did not respond to him after he said yes it was because that would frankly be reaching, but I did want to tell him. If the right inquiry comes along, and the timing is right, I will invite, but if it does not present itself naturally, I won't. Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: You, me and all of the things we're so scared of.. JenInVen #1575426 08/29/08 11:00 PM
Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 377 CA H HopefultotheEnd Member
HopefultotheEnd Member H Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 377 CA	Wow the bible thing is a trip. It's always hard to see a parent do that to a well meaning child. It is a small world. And sometimes these things happen for the best. His response is not a bad sign either. Say if any of you have a moment I think I could use a spot of advice over a convo I had earlier today with the W. Me:34 W:31 d's 5 & 10 M: 5 years, T: 8, Bomb1 3/8/08,#2:3/28/08 Asked 4 D:4/19/08, discovered PA 5/8/08,W moved out 6/30/08 W pregnant by OM: 2/17/08 last thread

Re: You, me and all of the things we're so scared of.. HopefultotheEnd #1575460 08/29/08 11:31 PM
Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ V Virtually_Handsome Member
Virtually_Handsome Member V Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 13,424 AZ	((((((((((Lola)))))))))) What an idiot! You know, even as an adult, you need to give respect to get respect, I think! I don't think it is something you are owed just because you've stayed alive for a few more years! Grrrrrrrr! Hope you've had a good day, Lola!

Re: You, me and all of the things we're so scared of.. Virtually_Handsome #1575479 08/29/08 11:45 PM
Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 835 NJ S Separated Member
Separated Member S Joined: Aug 2008 Posts: 835 NJ	Poor Lola & Lola's D!! What a DAM your XH. I hope he feels guilty after he realizes what he did!! With H...wow what a small world..,hopefully an opportunity will open up for an invite $;\)$ M:28 H:29 M:1 T:11 Sep:5/1/08 1st 2nd

Re: You, me and all of the things we're so scared of.. Separated #1575632 08/30/08 03:20 AM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	Sep I am hoping for that...going to see if it can nonchalantly brought up... Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: You, me and all of the things we're so scared of.. LolaL #1575644 08/30/08 03:33 AM
Joined: Nov 2002 Posts: 3,696 Indiana Floyd101 Member
Floyd101 Member Joined: Nov 2002 Posts: 3,696 Indiana	Your patience is superb Lola. Just wanted to say that you are doing an excellent job of DBing. FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.

Re: You, me and all of the things we're so scared of.. Floyd101 #1576082 08/30/08 03:28 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL OP Member
OP LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	Thanks Floyd. It means a lot to hear that coming from the man's point of view. Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: You, me and all of the things we're so scared of.. LolaL #1576092 08/30/08 03:49 PM
Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,410 I istherehope Member
istherehope Member I Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,410	How are you doing today Lola? ITH Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!

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