did you send him text messages? our network was having problems for over a day and we either were not getting texts to each other or we would get several of the same ones.
Go do something nice for yourself--new makeup, an outfit, something!!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Yea, it was tm. Maybe that's why he didn't get it. He got it now though. Now he says he wants to talk about on Friday. I'm FOR SURE NOT expecting it to happen like I did last time!
i have t-mobile and they've been having problems with text messaging lately.
now he wants to talk--oh joy. hang in there!!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Dar don't let me down now! I am glad you have no expectations. Don't go looking for excuses for him or getting sucked back in to his cake eating or whatever he's doing.
You ARE a strong, capable,decisive confident woman now (says so on your post it's doesn't it!)
You know Dar, I think I just cant send my H a letter yet, letting him go....basically because I feel like to me at this point, it might still be a game plan to me....like I would be hoping to would make him come back....I have to stop thinking that way...I think in the letter I wrote, I was having a hard time because I honestly werent believing what I was saying. "that I was ready to let him go" Am I? Im just not sure. Its like my Head says yes, but my heart says no. Im afraid of the future really. Im afraid the the OW thinking she won....Im just afraid. But I have figure that out, now I just have to work on it some. Get my heart to the same place my head is.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
Hi Dar. Thanks for the support on my thread. Sorry I haven't been around much on yours, but I am still following along. I just don't have much advice to give since I have been down in the dumps.
Kissak, when I wrote it I didn't feel it as well. It wasn't until I forced myself to send it, it face the fear, that it's helped. I still go back and forth, but I can't show him that.
H saw D last night. Picked her up from my mom's even but had no choice but to do that really. H then brought her to the bowling alley, and hung around. He was going to leave after D got set up on a lane, but then stayed while she played 3 games. Huh? Odd. But I can't think about the why's. He still says we'll meet up for lunch tomorrow, but again, not really thinking about that.
I'm supposed to have lunch with H today. In order to keep myself in check, I'm telling myself it's not going to happen. I don't want to cause that to happen, but it's the way I can not have expectations.
