Peace is good. After what all you've had to deal with, peace is very good.
Some day, sooner or later, your H is going to finally realize how foolish he has been and what he has let slip away. And he will realize he let the time pass too long and that it is too late -- and he will be in for a whole lot of remorse.
You are so special and so strong. You are not the loser here. Your H is. Someday he will realize this and I predict by then you will have found someone who does realize how special you are.
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
I still don't get your H. He seems to care about you a great deal, but can't seem to bring himself to work back toward your M. Fool. But you continue to impress me, lwb. You deserve the very best and from what I can see, H ain't it.
Me45 W35 M6 T8 D16 SD11 D0 Dec 07: Bomb July 08: Busted! Thread
Some day, sooner or later, your H is going to finally realize how foolish he has been and what he has let slip away. And he will realize he let the time pass too long and that it is too late -- and he will be in for a whole lot of remorse.
(((((((lwb)))))))
Of course you can't be H's best friend and it show how much he doesn't get it to request such a thing. Your job now is to do whatever it takes to find a happy life for you and your girls.
NC is so right, H will have regrets. Not that that will change a thing. Sometimes it's just too little too late. When I hear those words now I get that momentary punch to the stomach, followed by some sadness, but it's soon followed by the memory of how I did everything to keep us from being here and how it fell on deaf ears. Now, I just don't have it in me to feel anything.
This is the hardest part in our journey. After having read what you written I have no doubt that you will soar. Did you have any idea that you had the strength inside to endure all you have? That is what will get you through this as well and bring you full circle to having the life you deserve.
Take care Sweetie. You have so much to feel thankful for and what should have been a no brainer for your husband will end up being his biggest regret.
Wow. Thank you guys so much. I was in a very sad place yesterday. And everyone here understands. Today, as always, I am better.
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Sometimes it's just too little too late
This is hard to swallow. Even knowing that yes, H will have regrets (probably already does), but it will be too late to do anything about them. That is very hard. And makes me sad. But I can't change anything but MY world.
Had 'meet the teacher' at D6's school. Former OW was there, of course. I ignored her and kept a smile on my face. It doesn't hurt as much to see her these days, but it still sucks. Luckily her daughter will be on the other side of the school this year, so there's that, huh?
H was visibly uncomfortable and very much less cocky than normal. And thank goodness for small blessings, D6 got the teacher she wanted. All is right in her world, and that makes me so happy. She was ready for the disappointment, but it didn't happen. WEEEEEEE!!!
TAL, D6 has been very anxious lately. We are going to back to the schedule where I only will see her at breakfast Mon-Thurs, and she has been super sad about it. Me too. She is very attached to me, and knows that I will be with D4 more than her. I hate it too, and eventually it will change (when I can go on days). Luckily, D6's teacher is super nice and totally open to me being annoying and visiting D6 at school/eat lunch with her, etc.
Thanks for stopping by. When we went to school for the teacher meet and greet, D8 was sad that she has enemies in her class. I said you have to have some friends in here, lets look and she just said lets talk about it later. Poor baby.
You have it so much more together than I do. If I saw skank, she wouldn't have a hair on her head or teeth in her mouth!! Hopefully that day will never come because then you all would have to visit me in jail for assault! lol
Hope you can get your schedule changed to work out for all of you.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
