You are so encouraging. My aunt said the same thing. He will not be able to think about anything but the funeral and his feelings for his family. I hope this is right.
He came over last night and picked the kids up and also fixed the down spouts on the house.
He said he was worried about leaving me alone without the kids. I told him I was very tired and needed the space. He had trouble leaving.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
How are you feeling? Have you heard from the kids? I hope they will have a good time. I'm sure they are sad and this is a tough time for them and they probably miss you right now, but I know you must be so tired. You need to take care of you.
I hope you will take the opportunity to take a long hot bath, read a page-turner, drink a glass of wine, or whatever helps you to relax. Pamper yourself for a while. And sleep, sleep, sleep.
One recent weekend when H had the kids, I took a sleeping pill at bedtime (I have horrible insomnia but never take anything to help me sleep when the kids are here), and stayed in bed with a good book, the TV, and some great junk food the whole next day. It was heavenly!
I'm praying for you and your family.
TP
Me:40, xH:41 M:19 T:21 D14, S10, D6 IDLYA bomb:12/22/06 OW bomb (21 yr. old employee):12/23/06 H move out 2/07, OW move in 5/07 D papers served 6/07 D final Nov. 26, 08 :-(
