Jen, I am over on the Newcomers board but am seperated so I have been lurking. Different vibe here. You all are past a lot of the intial anger, pain and what next. Seems like you all are settled in for a long struggle. I am realising this sadly. A sense of humor I got so don't worry I can dish it with the best of them. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
He just called me to tell me a funny story. D6 just learned his mobile # a week agao. She was in the club while he was teaching a class. He was on his way back to the club when his phone rang at first he didn't know who was on the line...The conversation went:
XH: hello? ??: hello XH: hello? ??: hello XH: Who is this? D6: Daddy it's me! XH: Hi D6: I'm in the club. XH: Yes, I know, I'm just arriving. D6: Ok bye!
Turns out she went up to her friends Dad and asked if she could borrow his phone to call her Dad. He leant her the phone and she called XH! That's the first time she ever called either of us all by herself. I am a little embarrassed becasue she asked to borrow a phone but proud that she knows how.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Hey Coach as I told Separated last week...come on over and we'll keep an eye on you and help you out as much as possible.
Yes I guess we have learned a lot over the past few months and we've accepted that this is going to take a lot longer than any of us anticipated in the beginning.
A good sense of humour is always welcome and usually needed to survive thie Sh!t.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
That is cute......I love it. It is those type of things that will always keep your H coming back to you. You each share the same love for a special person that no one else in the world shares in the same way.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
TD something for you to look forward to in a couple of years!!
He called all happy and proud with the words "guess what just happened to me". I fed off his emotion and said while smiling "I don't know what happened'" After he told me the little story I told him "that's something to remember for always and I wished I had been there."
D is very funny just like when she said she'd fit in daddys pocket to go to the football game
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
My D always tells the story about how she was "born into the world" as she opens her arms out nice and wide. Then she says she wants to get in mommy's tummy and proceedes to climb down her shirt. At 3yrs and 25lbs ....she still fits...lol
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning