It is scarier than you think because violence escalates. Once the boundary has been broken about using force to contol you, there is no telling where it will go. This is physical abuse and cannot be tolerated.
I'm not trying to minimize things. But I also don't thinks it's a desperate situation. I saw him today. We took d4 for her first dentist visit. Afterward, we ate lunch. It was very casual. Of course, with d4 there, we didn't talk about anything.
We have a lot going on this week, so we'll see each other quite a bit. We have kindergarten orientation, and an allergy specialist for s2 (that in itself is a long story that landed us in the ER last weekend after he ate a walnut). We have a child care orientation, and a day care picnic. So, we'll be seeing each other.
I've told him before that I think we need a third party present when we need to talk. Not just to keep the conversation on course, but to keep us both from escalating. I guess I can go back to that.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
Lady...speaking from someone who has been through an abusive marriage, this is the way it starts. It does't start with your H beating your head in, it starts with words to break your spirit, controlling mannerisms, and then to top it off they throw the physical violence in. I just want you to be very careful. Sneaking into your home in the middle of the night, to me, is very disturbing behavior. Expecting sex when he isn't even speaking to you is very controlling behavior. You don't need this, you are having enough of a hard time, and this kind of behavior is not normal.
(((Ladybug))) you are precious to us and we don't want anything bad to happen to you so please be careful.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Lola, that's sweet. And, after I called you a whore.
I'll be safe.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
LMAO...yes thats me. The DB whore. It's all good...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
It's not as interesting as is sounds. It was on Fish's update thread.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
