Well girl all I can say is too bad we cant talk ....
I am going through the same thing almost at least your H gives some kind of response where mine says nothing...the silence kills me...he doesnt want to say anything and wants me to leave cause he know he is hurting me...other than not much is said... His OW is a nothing....no education etc...no job...and yet my H is having a fit cause I have spent money....long story...plus I quit my job thinking that was going to help the family ....anyways long long story.....
so if you need to vent I am here ...my Hs OW had baby last month and it is to deal with and most of all I want to know why???????
He has acknowledged before that he needs help, but just doesn't do anything about it. It sounds like it turned out to be a good conversation, though. Like you said to me, hating it...yeah, we all do.
I wish it only took one good whack with a stick.
Know what I mean?
He has and its gone nowhere, but in the past its been me behind it, pushing and encouraging it. This time he was the one who sought it out which I think is good. If all it took was one good whack with a stick, he'd either be fixed or in a place where it wouldn't matter anyway.
((A&F)) Sometimes knowing everything isn't any better. It just makes the mental images all that more vivid. I'll be her for you.
Thanks all....
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
(((Bad Company))) sorry I wasn't able to help yesterday. I have been so busy at work and getting back to some sort of schedule with the kids, I have been non-existant here lately.
(((Kat, Lost, Dar))) Thanks for checkin' in on me. I'm doing ok. Not much new to report here. H and I have been talking as we always do, some good, some bad, but thats just life. The C hasn't called him back yet, so hes kind of discouraged about that and he went to have a physical done yesterday and even with BP meds, his BP was high so he is worrying about that, but he also has a lot of anxiety when he goes to the Dr. and has gained 40 lbs. in the last 8 months, so that could be a contributor as well. I'll try to check in on everyone tonight when the kids go to bed.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
oh, did I say that out loud? Oops!