I'll do that this weekend. I guess I just won't put my college or high school so that those people don't get alerts I have signed up? ....Just not ready to catch up with old friends, that is why I haven't gotten that or a myspace yet.
Feeling better today. Weird how I am so up and down. I got paid today...AND I don't have to use my check for the mortgage as I normally would have . This is the first check since the house sold. ...The extra money is going to another bill...but at least I don't feel like I am just throwing it away on a house 1000 miles away.
I created my account under my real name, with my employer and school info. So I have DB and "RL" friends on there both. A lot of people on here have chosen not to do that though. I didn't worry about it too much since STBXH didn't have an account and wouldn't wonder who all the new people were lol.
YAY for the check!!!!!!!! That's such a nice feeling! I'm in the same position with paying off my car, it's going to my student loans instead but it's totally awesome nonetheless.
TGIF!!!!!!!!!!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
No more house payments to make - Yay!!! And glad you're feeling better today! No fun being in a funk, is it?
You really should think about setting up fb! I don't get on very much, but when I do, it's just nice to be able to "see" everyone's faces, send more hugs, share virtual drinks... ...Oh, and I read over on Jeff's thread that you can play games with other members. They were talking about Word Twist (?) - I think Michelle said it's like Yahoo's Text Twist. I like word games, so I'm gonna have to check it out myself!
(((((((Have a great weekend, Kris!)))))))
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
Yes, yay for no more house payments! I told my mom that I may get used to this no bills thing and she may not be able to get rid of me! She wants me to stay until I am ready to buy a house....i'll probably still do the apartment thing in a few months though.
I will set up on fb this weekend. I read that about the games on Jeff's thread too, sounds like fun!
hey sweets, "this" won't end, it "morphs", you let it take less and less control of your emotional wellbeing little by little, this wholething, the bomb, the D just happened 5min ago, of course you are not going to feel alright right now! give yourself some credit hon, it is just another rollercoaster of ups and downs, but luckly, we own the rolleroaster and we know it will end.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
I know, my mom always says everything happens for a reason. I try to think of it as this may not be the path I would have chosen but maybe the path I am supposed to take. I know it will make me a better person.
I am feeling better, I just have my moments. I struggle with the fact that I was the one that filed but it was a choice I made and I will come to terms with it. I feel I made the best decision at the time.
Join fb Cat, I see there are tons of people on there.
Well, I had a pretty good weekend. It was a good mix of GAL and being lazy. The pre-season party was so much fun! They had a band that I hadn't heard before and they were really good.
I went to the party with the new guy. He is really nice, it is just weird being with someone other than XH. I just feel like I will never have that connection with anyone else like we had. I find myself comparing and I know I shouldn't do that...but it is hard not to.
I am already ready for this weekend to be here. ....Long weekend PLUS football!
FYI on FB,. If you are concerned about "others finding you then you can set the account up where only "friends" can see you. It's under the privacy tab.
Kris..good on the house payment. Good on you for this past weekend.
Ok, I will look at that on fb. I just pretty much left out all personal info when I did it.
Ahh yes, the house payment. Feels so good not to have to worry about that. XH wasn't contributing at all...and we bought the house with two incomes...it was getting hard to do with just one.
Can't wait for football!
Oh yeah....I am getting on a health kick today. Maybe writing it here will help me stay on it . I have been doing good with my running but still not back up to what I was doing before I moved. Went and bought lots of chicken and fruit yesterday. I am going to try my best not to go out for lunch anymore...but it is just so tempting to get out of here sometimes.
. This is the first check since the house sold. ...The extra money is going to another bill...but at least I don't feel like I am just throwing it away on a house 1000 miles away. 
...Oh, and I read over on Jeff's thread that you can play games with other members. They were talking about Word Twist (?) - I think Michelle said it's like Yahoo's Text Twist. I like word games, so I'm gonna have to check it out myself! 