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Oh, angel face, I'm sorry you're so down today. I wish I had a magical kumquat to twerple you with... it makes everything better. But, alas, I am out of magical kumquats for the time being.

Know that you are in the thoughts of many people who wish you happiness.

xoxoxoxoxox

Thanks for checking in on me friends.

I'm still not feeling 100% but am hopeful that tomorrow will be a better day. I started reading a book today call The Shack. It's a very spiritual book where the main character meets, God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit. Something horrible happened to this man and he turned away from his spirituality because he felt it had turned away from him...

I'm not the most religious person.. but I am trying to give thanks more often.. and ask for help when I really need it.. and just talk to the big guy regularly..

but something in this book really hit me. it talked about being judgmental... and it's made me SOOOOOO aware that I have a lot of growing I still need to do.

Hugs,
W2G

I may have to check out that book...

Sorry you are going through a crummy time. Thinking of you.

hey W2G,
I have been following in the background. No doubt about it, these are difficult times and our spouses actions affect us. We all have to get to a point where we feel we can survive without our spouses....until then we are at the mercy of our spouses' actions (good or bad). This is a very difficult place to get to. I am struggling to get there myself. Hang in there W2G, we have all come a long way.....the road is very long and full of potholes....try to avoid them as best you can. Let's hope we can get to a smoother road soon.

Hi W2G,
Hope you are feeling better today. You let H know your feelings about his wedding ring. Now it's probably best not to bring it up again.
Keep hanging in there!!!

W2G,
how are you today?
Just wanted to ((((hug)))) you!

Dear Where,

I hope your day is full of joy and luminosity!!! I am so proud of everything you've been doing to prepare your house for sale, and showing it to people!! Way to embrace change and move forward towards the next stage of your life in that sexy condo!!

please give lil' where a kiss on the forehead from me!

LOVE
T

((((((Everyone)))))))

I'm doing better... still not great but better. Funny that my really bad day (the one where I posted that I just wanted to curl up and die or whatever it was I said) turned out to be the heavily related to PMS.. I had no idea just how much more emotional I get at that time of the month. I think it's likely gotten worse since the sitch.. but I don't know. I'm thinking it's still contributing to my being in a bit of a downer but thankfully not as down as I was at that point.

So what's going on now? Still dealing with these lovely agents that think they can save me tons of money by listing my house for me.. even though they are going to cost me over 10 g's to do it!!! If there weren't so many of them calling or stopping by it would be amusing.. but the volume makes it severely annoying!

Trying to sell some bigger items that I won't have space for after I move on a couple of those selling sites. People really expect something for nothing I'm finding.. but I don't get swayed. The right buyer will come around eventually.. I feel the same about the house. Someone will love it and cherish it... I hope whoever that is has a full and happy life here.. making beautiful memories!!!!

I met with that job guy today for lunch. The job is still available and they are still wanting me.. guess it was just a miscommunication in that both of the guys kind of assumed that the other had contacted me.. but neither did. So we discussed money.. and it's not what I'm wanting to make.. but it is a small company... I'm torn. I really like the two guys.. I've worked with them before and they were great... and I'm feeling the crunch that I need to start making some money to support myself. My concern is if I'm settling? I don't want to settle but I don't want to have to rely on my H to support me either. I want to be able to bring home some money for myself and my D.....

Oh, on another note, I wanted to mention that I tried another food that I never would have tried. Another 180. I tried escargot yesterday. Can you believe it? My H looked like he was impressed. Even D2 tried it.. but she didn't want a second one.. I actually ate 2 of them. I can't say I liked it.. but I can't say I hated it either...

Thanks for checking in and being here for me.

Don't know what I'd do without you and can't bear the thought of it.

Hugs,
W2G

Ooooh, I'm impressed with the 180. I'm usually game to try almost anything once, but I haven't tried escargot yet. I have eaten chicken feet and a mantis shrimp.

I think you should approach the job the way you're approaching the sale of your home and furniture pieces... don't get swayed. The right job will come around eventually. Maybe this could be an interim position?

PMS sucks. Feel better soon, friend.

xoxoxoxoxo

OMgosh!!!!!! Now that is daring. I've never seen a shrimp that looks like that before.. It looks scary!!

Thank you for your feedback on the job front hun!

((((((Ms. Imp)))))