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Hi TAL, Just wanted to say: Hope your day today is much, much better! Hugs!


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Dr.love... thanks.. I am feeling better thank you.

Yoyo.. I will definately check up on your stitch.

Sara... Sitter's are scarce around here, but I will be having my mom watch the kids when H leaves so I can at least go out with my gf.

Thanks rob..

Things are crazy once again... or did they ever slow down. Truck is back on the fritz again, and he has to leave Friday for out west. Plus he's got jobs to finish here, so the stress continues.
Im just going to keep busy and try not to be around him. Which wil be easy because he'll be all over the place until he leaves.

That's about it. Can't wait for it to quiet down a bit.


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(((((((((TAL)))))))))

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Hey jak.. hope your ok.

Just got back from Seeing H at the job site. He has to work a "all nighter" because of his truck being in the shop all day tomorrow. I feel bad for him sometimes. He does work really hard, and then gets kicked in the teeth sometimes with stuff that happens.

Anyways, so me and the kids went out and got some chinese for him and spent a little time with him. It was nice.

I have mixed feelings about him leaving on Friday. He will be missing his birthday, the local fair we go to every year and his class reunion. It really stinks. I mean the time apart is good sometimes, but the closeness is what I miss, not the fighting of course.

Anyways, Hopefully it will be worth if for us and we get ahead a little finacially.


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Getting ahead financially is more important to him right now then celebrating his bday on his bday, and missing other things You can make it his bday when he returns.

The closeness is hard to be without. ((tal))

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Thanks lwb.. I appreciate you stopping by.

its getting closer to friday, and Im having a bit of anxiety.
Work is crazy here until then so I won't even get to see him that much before he leaves.

Im trying to plan some stuff while he's gone. to get my mind off things.


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Hang in there. You'll make it.


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Thanks Nc \:\)

Well, he's gone, out west that is.

He left last night really late, so I was half asleep, I didn't give him the goodbye I wanted to, so Im a little bummed.

Got up early this morning, tried calling, but he's probably sleeping and someone else is driving.

Yesterday was really stressful. Running around getting his truck ready, and dealing with other clients. He looks like he's aged these last couple of months.

Im bummed. the kids have been driving me crazy the last couple of days, its just been hard.


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