Hi all..... well H is supposed to come over to see son tonight so I texted him to see if he could stay with him while I go out to a friends for a "jewelry party"....that was 3 hours ago and i haven't heard back from him yet....really....I bought a new sundress...I want to wear it and go out....I will go to a friends and stay out for a while cause I don't want to stay here with him.... I hope it works out....I kind of can't wait to see his face when I have this dress on....I hope he notices....even if he doesn't I love it.....it's beautiful and I feel great in it.....
Wish me luck......
YR....I was getting nervous not hearing from you...don't leave me...
SF....I will continue to just be me and try to just do my everyday stuff....
I'm a worrier...that's what is making this hard....
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
Another thing to remember is that when you contact them such as what you did, you may not always get a response. Heck, my H still does this at times!! For example, D16 texted him Monday afternoon to see if he could take the girls to church Wednesday night and they still have not heard from him. I think it is very foolish and low but I have learned to not let it bother me. We are very opposite when it comes to responses. I tend to respond promptly, he is a procrastinator; I am always on time, he is always late.
You get my drift.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
YR might go somewhere if her H lets her drive that new mustang. Ha, ha--
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
My h tells me to drive it all the time. I don't want to because a have a lead foot and it would cost too much in tickets. I will stick to my "safe car." LOL
Last night H came over about 7:30 to stay with son....I told him I had somewhere to go so I was dressed in my new sundress...boy I felt HOT......anyway....H came in and went straight to son....looked at me once and then not ever again...I think I was too hot for him to look at....LOL.....I was even doing some small talk before I left and I left all happy and cheery....I said "Bye".....he said bye also without lifting his head to look at me....this dress shows every curve and it was fushia and I have a very dark tan right now....had my hair up and off I went.....nowhere to go...LOL....went to a friends for 2 hours then headed home....
Again when I got home I told H that D21 needed her tags for her car and he kept playing the Wii with son...so I walked to another room....went up to my room put on a pair of shorts and a tank and came down....then he was getting ready to leave and I was in the kitchen....he walked in to put a glass in the sink and was talking about D21...couldn't be in the same room with me and kind of went by me really quick because he might have touched me ya know....can't have that....we laughed and then he left....I thanked him for changing my coach light bulb and buying me gas for the mower and said bye...shut the door and went to bed....
so what do you think? Do you think he noticed the dress? Is the guilt getting to him? Oh well....not going to worry about it... I still looked hot...LOL!!!
Jeff....new name??? what's up with that?
Sf....I understand about the responses...My H and I are like you and your H.....frustrating sometimes....
YR.....I'm so glad you're still with me.....
And I want a ride in the mustang......woohoo!!!!!!!!
Last edited by Treese; 07/31/0806:55 PM.
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
