Sometimes women are classified as WAW, men are classified as MLC.
Folks will argue those things ad nauseum. But in my own situation.......after YEARS of trying to figure out the REASONS...and finding DB (when the student is ready, the teacher will appear) ... the only thing you can control is what you DO, how you TREAT each other.
Some will argue it's simplistic. But it's the truth.
That said....everyone looks at things differently.
DB is about DOING.
Last edited by sgctxok; 03/01/0812:16 AM.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
I just realized an mlc "success" of which I am aware.
My boss had a mlc a few years ago. I've spoken to her several times in an attempt to understand what is going on with my X-W. She left her husband and the very nice home they were building to live with another man. I asked her what caused her to go back to her husband. She responded;
"One day I was sitting on the patio relaxing and having a drink with my boyfriend and I realized I could be at home doing the same thing with _______."
Proof some really do wake up?
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13
I just realized an mlc "success" of which I am aware.
My boss had a mlc a few years ago. I've spoken to her several times in an attempt to understand what is going on with my X-W. She left her husband and the very nice home they were building to live with another man. I asked her what caused her to go back to her husband. She responded;
"One day I was sitting on the patio relaxing and having a drink with my boyfriend and I realized I could be at home doing the same thing with _______."
Proof some really do wake up?
One day, I had been to town with OM… just drinking coffee and chatting. I came home and found my H and son on the living room floor chatting and playing a game….. It was at that moment that my heart started to thaw., I can’t remember a lot about my experience with OM .. but that one moment stands out to me as the time that it started to feel so wrong.
Nutty.
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
