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Originally Posted By: ms ladybug
Well the IT dept here at work must have woke up, because FB is once again restricted. I'll check out the pics tonight.
Hey, is new-gf name same as w?

And, sorry but the above example does not prove you are a new person. It's normal to be "easy-going" with a new interest. They are at the stage where they can do no wrong.

I'll let you know what I think about the new pictures.


What makes you think new girl's name is the same? Nope but it's very close, they are side by side in my address book. Both are with T ..

True what you said. I am sort of glad she can't go because i am exhausted after last night, and lack of sleep thereafter. I will now do gym/then home to bed.

Yes please let me know your thoughts, i think it must seem odd , suddenly this new girl appears on my friend list then i have like 15 pictures of her

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Are there pics of the 2 of you together? Anything that would make w wonder?


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Originally Posted By: ms ladybug
Are there pics of the 2 of you together? Anything that would make w wonder?


Nope..

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Sawks...are you trying to make W jealous?


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I don't think he's neccessarily trying to make his w jealous, but maybe just looking to see if he'll get her curious, or thinking. It would be great if there was a reaction from her. She seems to be fine going along as roommates. But, maybe seeing him with someone else will spark something in her.

I could be wrong...


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Hmmmm


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Originally Posted By: LolaL
Sawks...are you trying to make W jealous?


nope not in the least. I hope I don't come accross as trying to do so?

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Originally Posted By: ms ladybug
I don't think he's neccessarily trying to make his w jealous, but maybe just looking to see if he'll get her curious, or thinking. It would be great if there was a reaction from her. She seems to be fine going along as roommates. But, maybe seeing him with someone else will spark something in her.

I could be wrong...


Nope, i am done, i could really care less anymore if she is curious or not. I know it's hard to believe, but i sort of hit a wall and decided that this is for the better. She wanted this, she's getting it, it took awhile to accept, but i have accepted it and have moved on. Just a matter of getting my own place now. There won;t be a reaction, and even if she changed her mind now, I am very confident I would not change mine. She has done it once, even with my changes and such, now the trust factor goes the other way, and I cannot trust her to not do it again.. make sense? She said not to bring anyone over.. but what harm could it do as roomates? Just watching a movie is innocent ..

thoughts on bringing new girl over to watch a movie? W is gone first week of Sept.. new girl wants to walk the dogs with me .. even though she is super allergic..

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Well, yes. But don't bring the new girl over, IMO, until you get your own place. I just think it is disrespectful.


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Originally Posted By: LolaL
Well, yes. But don't bring the new girl over, IMO, until you get your own place. I just think it is disrespectful.


OK Fair enuff, it's likely new girl won't want to come over anyways because of the sich.. and I really don't think I would have actually done so..

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