Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
The guy who did the tat took a close up of it and a full pic of me and the tat lol. They were in love with the art work I had printed off and were going to check out Amy Brown's webpage.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
When someone says"...and that's why we can never get back together" Does it mean they have actually given it some thought?
XH was telling me that he feels like I'm rubbing the past 6 months in his face by mentioning the EA and the new friend and that he's tired of me trying to make him feel guilty. That I ask questions just to shove the answers at him later. He right I do that and I know it's wrong.
I've promised so many times not to bring things up but he's told me that even when he feels comfortable telling me things I throw that back at him too.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Jen, if you have texting on your phone, you can send it to your e-mail address and then you will have it on your computer. I do it all the time. Just type in your e-mail addy in the to: line and away it goes.
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
My XH bought me a Pearl in Miami and I need to activate all the featres for it today. I only have a simple plan right now and it won't send to emails yet.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
yeah I have texts and all that but I need to set up the phone so it accepts data. He bought the phone in Miami unlocked and now I need to activate the plan for a Blackberry here in Venezuela....easy to do (I hope).
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
When someone says"...and that's why we can never get back together" Does it mean they have actually given it some thought?
XH was telling me that he feels like I'm rubbing the past 6 months in his face by mentioning the EA and the new friend and that he's tired of me trying to make him feel guilty. That I ask questions just to shove the answers at him later. He right I do that and I know it's wrong.
I've promised so many times not to bring things up but he's told me that even when he feels comfortable telling me things I throw that back at him too.
Wow and I thought my H was confusing. Yes, I believe it means he has thought about it. Maybe this is one of the things you can do a 180 on??? If he is still thinking about it, I think that is a good sign.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
I def. need to do a 180 here and show him that what happened is done and we can't change it. But of course to also not talk about anybody he's friends with.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
It means he has thought about getting back together, and then came up with reasons why you cannot.
I have a process that I use at work that goes like this. You start with a goal and then list out all of the reasons you aren't accomplishing that goal. Each one of those reasons gives you a path to help accomplis that goal, so you list out a plan of action for each item. If you accomplish them, you will reach your goal.
It's the same thing. The goal is getting back together. He listed out all the reasons why you cannot, now you have a roadmap as to what needs to be done so that you can.
It's actually a good thing to know why, so you're not working blindly. Now take care of those reasons!
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
The guy who did the tat took a close up of it and a full pic of me and the tat lol. They were in love with the art work I had printed off and were going to check out Amy Brown's webpage.