True, it IS hard to let go of something that was once so beautiful...someone we had shared so much with...
Physically I am getting better everyday. I have to work on meditating and not letting my mind run away with me and stuff...i have been known to do that...LOL!
Hang in there, we WILL get through this!!!
Hugs, V
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
Hi Vali, Another week has gone by, and I hope you are getting better by the day. Yes, you need to let your mind rest. I know it is easier said than done, I speak from experience!!! - We WILL make it!
I went to a play last night, and it was not too good. I will have to stick to the classical stuff, as I don't really like the local productions.
True, at least you got out! I went to the lake this weekend...my aunt turned 50 and several of us went to celebrate...i did not go swimming as my doctor did not give me clearance until next week.
We will make it, sweets!
Hugs, Vali
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
Now imagine them in Fuschia and those are my new sexy heeled sandals!I love this brand...they run narrow which is perfect for me since I have narrow feet.
Sigh, at least shoes can make me happy!!! LOL!
Love you all!!!
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
Went home yesterday to pick up some stuff only to find that someone had egged my house. Asked LL about it and he said he has been there Saturday night...but he apparently forgot to check the mail...
Personally I think he is lying...he did not go to my house this week at all I bet. He did not set out the recycling like he said he would.
You can never believe these guys or count on them...
LL never tells me anything about himself anymore...not what he is doing on a day-to-day basis like before...he never mentions anything...don't know if it means anything.
Just trying to focus on detaching...I am not calling him a liar or anything...just agree and see what happens...
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
I don't know what is going on with the board...seems like people are leaving and new people are coming on...and everything changes!
I am feeling stronger everyday!
Still getting e-mails from LL...mainly he is complaining about something or the other...I feel sorry for him really...it seems like all the things he complains about could be fixed fairly easily but he makes such a big deal outta everything...I just listen and agree if it is really needed.
I must start detaching w/o ignoring or whatever. I think I have gotten those confused...
Anyhow, the Diva and I are enjoying our time here...I drove my car for the first time today in almost 3 weeks!
Hope everyone is having a great day!
Valentine
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
