You will want to at least be civil to her. It will make a difference later, if you are to ever reconcile, trust me. If she says goodbye, say goodbye back -- be polite. Treat her like a cousin or a co-worker.
Don't brood.
Puppy
What he said.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
thank you folks, sorry for the quadruple post. my screen freezes up and i try to refresh but it won't do it. woops. anyways, she tries her butt off to be nice to me; she doesn't understand apparently what it is like to see her with someone else. maybe some day she will. who knows. I guess I can say goodnight to her.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
I'd like to clarify that W does not want to do anything "family" related - as in her, our son and I for about the past month. maybe she used to because she felt sorry for the whining mess that was the old me. now that i act like i don't even notice her in a room, maybe she is starting to wonder ? Alas, she is doing her own thing and I am doing mine.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
We have a church picnic coming up on the 17th....I got tickets for my son and I. of course W was invited back before I got tickets, and like usual didn't say one way or the other. I don't press her for anything anymore. If she wants to go out with OM and ruin her life, que sera sera!
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
also, my wife is definitely addicted to texting me AS SOON AS we go our separate ways for the day, usually commenting on how i either said nothing, or how "it was nice of you to say more than 2 words to me today"
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
this situation with my wife is the hardest thing I've ever had to do. I can't detach all the way because we have to talk about our son. I need advice puppy, sg, whomever.....should I have a friend drop a hint to her to stop texting nonsense stuff to me ? It's always stuff she could tell me in person later in the day. It's hard when I love her and want her back and she doesn't want me (that I know of). I don't want to talk to her. It's easier this way. Why can't she take my hints
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
she texted me this morning saying I would be happy to know she got our son new shoes and clothes and a new movie. Naturally I don't respond and right after work another text saying 'you could be a little excited about the shoes you know' so I said 'when I see them'. the point is she is going out of her way when she wakes up to find a reason to text me. I want it to stop
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
