The thing is Sandi I don't let things like the argument on the flowers escalate into anything more serious now. Looking back I can see that my reactions sometimes contributes to making a situation worse, but I think I've got a good handle on that that now. It's no longer a life or death struggle to prove who is right and who is wrong. I tend to let things slide a little more.
Wise words there my man! Don't sweat the small stuff! What is it Dr. Phil says? Do you want to be right, or do you want to be happy? You are really learning well. Piecing is not an easy job, but you two are hanging in there and I think if it were not for what you have been able to do, it probably would not have survived. You have grown so much and i am very proud of you. You will be an inspiration to a lot of people.
((Take care))
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!