The reason i hesitate is because all I ever tend to hear from her lately is negative, negative, negative. All she does is complain about just about everything in life, me included. It is obvious she is very unhappy.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
Trust me, I know. My H is pretty stand offish during all of this as well. I made a meatloaf last night and he took it out of the oven for me while I was bowling. When I came home, he told me how good it smelled. I offered him to take half of it since it's just me and D and he said he would love to but didn't know if it would go to waste since he'll be at work all day with this party he had to plan. He didn't want to bring it and throw it out. I didn't offer as a wife either, but as a friend since I would offer it to anyone. I've made lots of offers to always get declined as well but he's coming around more as I treat him like a friend and not as an H that needs to get his act together.
About the negative, if you bring her dinner once and she complains saying something like "why'd you go and do that?!" then just say that you had extras and thought she'd like some. Then don't do it again for a while.
I think they want no obligation towards us at all.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
Downward spiral? clarify. As far as what i am doing for myself. going to church camp tomorrow night. So tonight , I am getting all my stuff ready to go.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
Got it!