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fugedaboudit!

Here's what I don't get about SBIM... what would a playa want with a sweet girl like me? I'm not the kind of woman a player would be interested in scoring. Don't worry about me, though. I'm not interested in getting involved with him. Maybe players can spot an easy target and I have a bullseye painted on my head (or elsewhere!)???

I'd just take a hammer to the sucker. I'm dying to know too. xoxo

don't ask him. he will think your pleading and begging and he does not deserve anything from a woman such as yourself.

You can ask him if he would like to sell that Flat screen though..LOL LOL LOL

I'm with the others...Look in the box.

Whats new Ms. Imp?

So you guys think I should open the box in a sneaky way rather than just asking him? I don't think he'd think I was pleading and begging. We have to divide assests and that is one of our assets, right?

I'm still struggling with how to live in this house with him. It's my nature to take care of him, to be his wife. I've only been married to him for almost four years, but I took the role of wife very seriously.

Yesterday while grocery shopping I picked up some of his favorite things... not because I'm trying to win his heart. I think I feel kind of sorry for him right now. It was a pity purchase.

Last week when I had my hair appointment and had coffee with SBIM, I was away from the office for about four hours. That night he asked where I was, which he never does. I'm thinking he thought I was consulting an attorney... which I NEED to do this week. Waiting to see my C for referrals.

Did he tell you he was locking it before he did?? LOL
I don't want to get in trouble over a locked box. Do what you think it right. I think you already know what I would do.



he's a lucky boy, my STBX banned me from eating any of her food..lol

I've not read back, what's the box about ? what's in it that is so necessary to split ?

Mike, I can't imagine being able to live with myself if I treated someone I was willing to create a child with the way your wife treats you. It is unimaginable. What happens in a person's mind to behave in such a way? It's like the "War of the Roses".

We just don't know what it's in it. We even have pictures of it on FB...

Do whatever you feel like doing. What is he going to do? Divorce you?
S

Hey Arthur, the box is a wooden chest in our living room that has been recently (within the past year) locked with a padlock. I once asked my husband what was in the box and he simply replied, "you'll find out one day." It's this big mystery that used to make me CRAZY. I was trying to figure our what could be in the stupid box: gay porn, love letters to another woman, documentation of his secret life, and on and on and on. Now I really don't care. =)

So, I still don't know what's in it and he never mentioned anything to me before adding the lock...