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It is definetly a rollercoaster, that's for sure.

Hang in there man, it takes a lot of work, but it's worth it in the long run.

Just a quick update my sich, i have lost 25 pounds, in wicked shape... keep busy all the time, and on and on.. my attitude is way 180... however living in the same house sure makes things tough.. i almost wish the house sold and she could truly experience seperation..

I'm wondering what would happen if you went to the house warming. You could go for a short while to say hi to some friends and then leave and do something else.

Would that be feasible for you?

Nope too uncomfortable..the girl that is having it it W's friend from long ago.. i have 2 friends moving away to Halifax..tonight is their going away BBQ I am going to that

Amen to that. W is 'house sitting' for a friend down the street. She went from not coming by our house for 3 days, to showing up every morning the past 3 days. She is outwardly happy when I see her.

But is she really happy? It's got to be lonely every night being in an empty house. And she isn't seeing any of the financial issues because it's free.

Hey Red just stopping in, that letter is awsome!!. Its heartfelt, and honest. Heck I may even use yours as a temp for a letter I want to write my wife!

Ah cool. Didn't know the full sitch. It makes sense for you not to go to the house warming and to go to the BBQ...Halifax is such a beautiful city.

Hey Sawks...just wanted to stop in a say hi...How did your BBQ go?

Go For it, lots of folks can help u out if that's the route u choose

Let me find my first post tomorrow and I will show u if u want..

I got home tonight and saw a car parked in my spot.. oh boy did my blood pressure ever go up..

it's a girlfriend of w's and she likely drank too much..so couldn't drive.. oh boy the thoughts that went thru my head when i saw a car..

I will miss this set of friends, but their daughter is staying here so they'll be back..