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Re: Waltzing again! LL44 #1553481 08/11/08 03:55 AM
Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 5,666 Y Yoyowife Member
Yoyowife Member Y Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 5,666	Mattie, I see your H continues to be a jerk like always. I'm so sorry. I hope you are enjoying your new job. Hope you don't mind if I leave Penny a message on here. Penny, I totally understand what you mean about the OW trying to butter your kids up. That hurts so bad. The OW is still my H's secretary, ugh!!! My DD20 works part time at the office meaning that she is around the homewrecker everyday. It bothers me so much!!! Hugs to you both, Yoyo Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon

Re: Waltzing around significant events Matilda2 #1556331 08/13/08 11:14 AM
Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 2,014 Martinsburg, WV N NNP1965 Member
NNP1965 Member N Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 2,014 Martinsburg, WV	checking in, saying hi... Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011

Re: Waltzing around significant events NNP1965 #1557313 08/14/08 01:43 AM
Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 5,666 Y Yoyowife Member
Yoyowife Member Y Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 5,666	((((((((Mattie)))))))))) Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon

Re: Waltzing around significant events Yoyowife #1557395 08/14/08 03:20 AM
Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 6,266 F FA Member
FA Member F Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 6,266	I feel your pain on the "other" parent making excuses....seemed to be a fav with my XW when it came to ANYTHING with the kids...except to use them for something...like going to visit her mom...and they DIDN'T even want to go! Man who walks with BIG stick!

relapse over deviled eggs FA #1559854 08/16/08 01:16 PM
Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 3,665 M Matilda2 OP Member
OP Matilda2 Member M Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 3,665	I feel so silly, but I was making deviled eggs for a luncheon at work and started crying. They used to be a favorite of my exH's and he was always my taster. I had not made them since we separated. The silly part was I sent him an email simply saying: "I miss you tonight. I needed you to taste my deviled eggs" I often write things to him, but I never actually send them. Why I sent this email I don't know. He actually replied, "I would love to taste your deviled eggs. I miss your cooking" It is the first hint that there was anything about our 30 year marriage that he misses. In a strange way that makes me feel more at peace. Am I crazy???

Re: relapse over deviled eggs Matilda2 #1559915 08/16/08 02:51 PM
Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 2,014 Martinsburg, WV N NNP1965 Member
NNP1965 Member N Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 2,014 Martinsburg, WV	I fully understand that making you feel more at peace. Hugs to you (((Mat))). You are not crazy! Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011

Re: relapse over deviled eggs NNP1965 #1559994 08/16/08 05:20 PM
Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 5,666 Y Yoyowife Member
Yoyowife Member Y Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 5,666	(((((Mattie))))) I know exactly what you mean about having triggers that will make you sad and think about the "good times". You are not crazy, just a wonderful person who loved her husband and her family. That's not something you can just turn off after 30 years of marriage. Hugs, Yoyo Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon

Re: relapse over deviled eggs Yoyowife #1564856 08/20/08 05:49 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y. J JAK58 Member
JAK58 Member J Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y.	((((((((MAT)))))))) No you are not crazy, Quite normal infact! JAK You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez

Re: Waltzing again! Yoyowife #1567038 08/22/08 10:55 AM
Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 3,665 M Matilda2 OP Member
OP Matilda2 Member M Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 3,665	Now I believe my ex is crazy, too!!! He called to ask about D18 (which was nice), but he ended the conversation, "bye sweetheart. Call if you need anything". Just an old habit? Slip of the tongue? At least I am crazy for a legitimate reason!

Re: Waltzing again! Matilda2 #1571350 08/26/08 07:19 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y. J JAK58 Member
JAK58 Member J Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y.	Or maybe the fool is starting to peak through the HUGE amount of fog!!! Like I said, you are not crazy. JAK You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez

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