My H said it was very difficult to resist me and I am sure it is the same for your H.
You will have to wear it again. Or better yet, wear a revealing shirt that outlines everything!!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
You handled yourself FABULOUS!!!!! I did that many times too. I lost 40 pounds on that rotten MLC diet and I looked better than I had in years. My h did the same thing. He looked and then didn't look again. That is so funny.
See it did you good to laugh with him and not be clingy or sad when he was there. Give it time.
BTW, we could put the top down on the mustang and go for a really fasssssssssttttt ride with me behind the wheel!!!
I bet H noticed...it seems to me that my H isn't paying any attention...but then things come up later and he is completely paying attention but pretending disinterest!
I bet you looked great! Do those things for yourself! Make yourself feel good....doesn't matter if H notices or not! How does it make you feel to get all dolled up like that? That's what's important!
MLC sucks...but you are weathering the storms and hanging on for the ride! I admire you!
Hugs!
BA
Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally
Thanks everyone....I did feel good in that dress....I've lost 13 pounds so it looked very curvy....I didn't even need to lose the weight but it looks good off....I did want him to notice and not sure if he was when I turned around or not..didn't seem like it... but even if he didn't my friend did...she said I looked beautiful...I even wore a necklace and earrings....YOW!!!
H will be here tonight again to switch cars....his is better on gas and I'm going to go get D16 at D21's tomorrow....so I'm a little nervous...I seem to get this way when he comes over....why is that? He is going out of town with the boys tomorrow until Sunday....
I havent been clingy at all lately....he doesnt come by much and when he does now he wont even sit on the couch he sits on the ottoman...LOL!!! like someone said here before...it's for the quick getaway..I think it was you YR.....
I will wish him a good time for the weekend....and move on....
I"m trying but it seems likes it's getting harder instead of easier....maybe because he seems so distant now....
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
Ba....I hope you are doing okay through all this.....
and my storms are still there just not as many....I'm glad because it was so controlling my life....I waited 14 months to really go out and enjoy my life.....it's still very hard but I'm getting better and my tattoo helps...ALOT!!!!!
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
hmmm...borrowing his car? Perfect opportunity to plant some little clues, if you're so inclined. Or just "forget" and leave something that will p.o. the OW when she finds it.
Yep that comment was me. That is how my h acted. Didn't sit down and even said that it didn't feel like home anymore. Things do change.
I know you are doing better because you are not on the board as much. This is good. You are handling everything great. Your h notices more than you think he does.
It will get harder as he distances himself from you and the family but this is a part of him making his way. You will find yourself detaching some too. It will be a bumpy ride.
Speaking of rides,,,,I am revving up the car!!!! Yahoo!!!
KML.....didn't think of that...hmmmmmmmmmm.....spray my perfume all over....I will have it for 3 days....my undies....hmmmmmmmm....
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
So H came and traded cars....wouldn't look at me again...only for a sec....then kissed son goodbye and walked by me...head straight ahead....and said he had to go pack....I said tell friend hello and have a good time...he said."okay, be careful going to get D16" and walked out the door....
OK...so as soon as he walked out the door....I started sobbing....don't know why maybe because he totally was avoiding me or the fact that every year he goes on this trip he hugs and kisses me goodbye and we say our ILY's. I didnt say or do any of it and it killed me.....and yes the distancing is very difficult for me....I so wanted a hug....and I'm so lonely....so I just hugged and kissed my Son instead and told him I love him...
why does this have to be so up and down....I HATE THIS RIDE!!!
Ok, now I got it off my chest so tomorrow is a new day...and I have to travel...
YR....start the car....I'm on my way.....
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
