((((Gypsy))))- just watching some of your posts and giving you a hug for your strength! when i turned 16 i was a total hormonal mess caught on video- fun....good luck with your D!
Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese
For a bit I basked in the glow of what had been very good about spouse... how he would take care of me. Then the shine wore off when I realized that he more or less admitted that he had intentionally done things that were wrong and harmful. I reminded myself this is the guy who left to actively pursue another life with someone else while placing the blame solely on me.
Wow. Just wow. Whenever H is doing something thoughtful for me, or explains how he never meant to hurt me through all this, wants the best for me, I am a 'basker' too. Weird.
Hi Girlfriend, Hugs, just hugs. You're in my thoughts, I'm just too tired to put some words together. I feel rather brain dead tonight.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
I probably need to exercise more and get real busy.
*hugs*
Sweet Beautiful Butterfly...
I sense that H stepped up abit to allow you to be secure in his proposal he has done some thinking IMO, however little that might have been. H acknowledging that fact of causing pain I can understand your moment of awe.
You are only stuck if you allow yourself to be that, you have come a long way on your path of self awareness don't look back now.
Don't be afraid of the unkwown, it can't be as bad as the past...it can only be a gift when you have the control of it...
Withdrawing can be a healthy manuver to regroup your thoughts the key is to not stay in there to long and over analyze...
You proved to yourself that you can act on your own accord with helping move the tree noone asked you to help, you chose to help...
Exercise, sleep, staying busy, are all important compnents to self improvement and healthy thoughts YES do more...
Keep expanding those wings and testing how they work, the more you use them the 'stronger' you get...
Wow.. all these posts and I didn't realize there were replies! What a sweet pleasant gift... *hugshugshugs*
Thanks pisces.. I'm watching her alternate between wanting lots of hugs and being tucked in to saying she's too old for so many hugs a day. I just finished tucking her in like a mummy with a million stuffed animals ringing around her. Gotta love kids.
lwb.. thanks for dropping in! I bask.. then think a negative thought or two (then have to send blessings!). This was the first 'bask'.. but motivated by his need to get the divorce done.
Ms cookie.. are you okay? Busy day? Stuff going on? I'm a phone call away. *hugs*
Brian.. goodness.. thank you for those gentle words of hope and inspiration. *hugshugshugs* They do the soul good.
Mike.. thanks for the call. It's good to talk to someone who's in the trenches. *hugs*
Ms. Imp.. what a treasure you are. What color is your halo? *hugs*
The only depressing thing (not that I'm looking.. just noticing) is that I think I'm older than everyone.. except for the really old people. Maybe I just feel old.. hmmmm.
How oh how to get a life.. that's the question! Thanks for peeking in.
