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(((((Kelly Jo)))))

I tried posting to Phil a few times. If you don't say what he want's to hear he either ignores you, or gets really vicious. I quit trying, myself. I'm still tempted some days, but I funally realized that it is a cheeseless tunnel. Better to spend the time posting to someone that will listen, for me.

Hi Kelly Jo,
Just stopping by to say hey & thanks for being on my thread the other day.

I hope Forrest's post that ndsm put here helps you too.

making yourself happy.. hard to find what that is somedays isn't it? BTDT.

What do you like to do outside of H's arms that makes you happy, puts you at peace, lightens your heart, creates giggles on your lips?

I started by making a list and then trying them (again). I kept some and discarded others.

Putting music on myiPod and dancing around my sunroom (with the shades drawn!) ranks really high on the list!!

Hope you find some good things in your day!
Peace
Bridge

(((Bridgestone)))

I absolutely love music and dancing and I don't even need to draw the shades. I live in the country and no one could see me with or without shades. : )

Right now I am listening to Darling Nicky by Prince. A very dirty song. Loved it in college, love it now.

I love to sew, knit, cross - stitch, bake, cook, be on the computer, write, and spend time with friends. LOL I love to be in my h's arms ml and spend a lot of time thinking about it. I love to be outside and especially camping, fishing, picnics, wildlife. I love to spend time with my dog. I have great friends, and love to spend time with them.

Anyhow, tonight is going to be interesting. I sent the s a text to make sure it was ok to take down the posters and banners and box them up.

Kjo.....

sounds like oyu have a lot of stuff to GAL with. Do it! Keep the one thing (the one about being in your H's arms) hidden away for awhile......you'll drive yourself bonkers if you keep thinking about it.

i saw someone talk about paint by numbers on here awhile back... i picked myself up one...i really enjoy it...not very good at it yet, but it helps ease my stress...

(((Neil)))

I also like to do puzzles, but usually in the winter. I like the outdoors, but not when its cold. Been a while since I did a paint by numbers. Might check it out.

The son said to go right ahead and take down the posters and to save the banners. Woo hoo!

Neil, it is extremely hard not to crawl into bed with him. But, tonight it is not to be. I guess I'll have to take a cold shower when I am done with the room.

The son said to go right ahead and take down the posters and to save the banners. Woo hoo!

Neil, it is extremely hard not to crawl into bed with him. But, tonight it is not to be. I guess I'll have to take a cold shower when I am done with the room.

The son said to go right ahead and take down the posters and to save the banners. Woo hoo!

Neil, it is extremely hard not to crawl into bed with him. But, tonight it is not to be. I guess I'll have to take a cold shower when I am done with the room.

A very cold shower. LOL.

girl, i've been taking cold showers for about 6 months now!! LOL


good plan tho. Self control. You do it tonite, you can do it forever....know what i mean? Gives yourself confidence in what you can accomplish....