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Hubby came home this morning and told me that he had thought a lot about what I had emailed him. He would like to start paying the bills so I do not have to handle all the paperwork since I do that at work all day. I was both surprised and hesitant. The last time he paid the bills it lasted about 1 month. He paid 3 of them late so I took them back. He also told me that he did not speak to the OW last night or for the previous few weeks. I am glad to hear that but really wish he would find another place of employment. I am sick of worrying every night he is at work.
I want to forgive him and work through this but feel like I am running out of time. He said for the 4th time in the last nine months...I am going to work on us and try really hard. How many times should I hear it before I believe it?

hugs kelly!! I SOOOO understand your sitch!! my H works with ow also. and I sit here, wondering worrying, and ugh it does make us crazy!! I cant offer you words of wisdom, as I am with you in the emotions, BUT I can offer you friendship and support, and maybe we can help eachother!!
hugs, hang in there, and you arent alone!

Hi Babygirl,
I have told husband that I would be much happier if he would find another place of employment but he does not want to leave. He told me today that the OW's best friend, who was my friend once upon a time, told him that the OW was getting married. My first thought was..I hope some tramp comes along and ruins her life too. I would have never thought this way before this happened.
I am not sure how to get the thoughts out of my head. It helps knowing you understand. I just feel like I am fighting a losing battle sometimes.