I have gotten better about it, but it is something I need to continue to work on.
Sometimes its just better to let it go. I won't justify my response though...Boo Hoo your in trouble with your OW? I'm your wife you DAFT (dumb ass F*cktard), so your probably not going to get ANY sympathy from me about it.
Anyway, I read Puppy's thread about helping others and I'm going to try, but I saw some of myself in the not listening to advice part and I have to do that as well, not just pay it lip service, do it.
That's why you'd be one of the best ones to give advice, Corey.
The next time your husband tries to bring up a conversation about the Troll, try cutting him off and saying "Please stop. I DON'T care, first of all, and it's incredibly disrespectful for you to even discuss her in front of me."
And do that as many times as you need to. I suspect it will only have to be ONCE.
[The next time your husband tries to bring up a conversation about the Troll, try cutting him off and saying "Please stop. I DON'T care, first of all, and it's incredibly disrespectful for you to even discuss her in front of me."
And do that as many times as you need to. I suspect it will only have to be ONCE.
Puppy
Soooo, I can't just call him a f*cktard and be done with it?
I will have to remember that one Puppy & GFI, thanks.
Originally Posted By: Hope4us
I'm kind of where you are S&S. Told W that OM was cheating on her and lying to her back last fall and now I'm dealing with poor poor pitiful me.....oh well....
H KNOWS Dos Trolls cheated on him because of her STD's(that only she had)but their ability to not get that its beyond inappropriate to cry about it to their S is whats so Outer Limits to me.
Originally Posted By: stubborn
gives a whole new meaning to the stiff upper lip Brit types saying: "are you DAFT man?"
F'tard is a word among words for description and venting power.
I too need to reach out and start posting to others. Puppy is right. My sitch sucks right now so it's hard to move at all, let alone post.
Thats too funny! DAFT! Again, thank our charming GFI for f*cktard...it is the bestest word EVER!!! Stubborn, I'll try and check on your sitch this weekend. Hope your day looks up.
I guess my sitch is finally calming down enough for me to be able to try and help someone else as I have been. Or maybe its that I have finally started to detach, but I know I couldn't have done anything without the wonderful people here. So thats why I will try and help some of the others here.
Its about Paying it forward, right Puppy?
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
You could stamp "Please stop. I DON'T care, first of all, and it's incredibly disrespectful for you to even discuss her in front of me" on his forehead, right under the backwards Wamulance, so you could just read it to him....
(((((Corey))))) You could stamp "Please stop. I DON'T care, first of all, and it's incredibly disrespectful for you to even discuss her in front of me" on his forehead, right under the backwards Wamulance, so you could just read it to him....
Jeff, that is a wonderful idea, however he would have to have a forehead the size of Beldar Conehead. As sexy as that sounds, I'm just not feelin' it. LOL
I don't think I could get my boot very far up his a$$ since that is where his whole torso seems to reside! You guys crack me up!
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
