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FG~ we are popular...too bad my H didn't want me this much!! LOL!! good morning!

how was cleaning...mine...well..the couch, law and order marathon...i think you can figure from there

continuing...I work 12 hours today, will try to stop by when I get home this evening! love the pool joke, and no never get one...they're a pain in the arss in more ways than you ever thought possible!!

Good Morning.. hope you have a great day.

I got to sit on the couch.. for 2 hours this weekend.. my wife was trying to kill me with housework/yardwork.

Kidding.. I had a OK weekend.. I did work hard though. And the yard looks nice. So that is a plus.

I did wake up to a flat tire on my car this morning.. Ah well.. what are you going to do. I will talk to you tonight.

Continuing.. I will see what I can do.. sometimes it takes me a while to get around tuit!

FG- my car got broke nto last nite sometime...lovely! I got lucky all they took was my cup of change...they missed the "credit card", a fifth of vodka, my pay check stub and some other miscellaneous items...I heard my pooches bark a few times in the night..wonder if the kids scared them off!

Needless 2 say I had a good random text 2 the H this mornin! And as of yet no reply! Go figure! Car gets robbed..stil nothn!!

Hope ur day is going better than mine,

FG~ Still no word from the H...wonder what he's up to?

Talked to my people...funny, he was with my friends H this weekend...no talk of pool, the PIA, or me! I guess his life is hunkyfrekingdoory!!

So far 3 texts and the pool idea...no response...thoughts?

I am hopefully getting a second opinion.

I would push this.. something is telling me hold up.

Let me see what I can round up.

just curious...where does fg go for 2nd opinions?

check out weather.com...see the line of red thru IL...it's freakn lovely...my pooches are not happy!

i will hold up...still no response. no drama....

loud thunder=sad poochs

storm not passn fast enough...see the irony in that statement!! LOL

I got people...

Just like you.

I really like storms.. especially ones with lots of thunder and lightning. I will pull up a chair and watch them from my garage.

You learn from other people.. and the things they do. You never know what might happen.

Montezuma.. Mecca.. and Newman.. Busy place tonight.

Stay safe.. I will see you in the morning.. sleep well.

issues with sleep...past few days...between that and the storm my head is hurting....

i'm going back to bed...well hopefully...

i like storms...when i don't 2 85 pound dogs crawling on top of me crying and shaking, they're sad...and i can't comfort them

good night/good morning....

Off we go..

So I got some feedback.. and am still waiting on some.

I am going with my gut on this.

I still want to be clear that this is going to stir up some "Drama". It has to.

I don't want to mislead you.. or give any false hope.

Your H is mad.. no doubt about it. He still does not like what you did to him. I suspect he is still blaming you.. I am as sure of that.. as I am that my name is Cory.

You are scared you are going to push him. You hold alot of fear in what you say and do. There is a sense of withdrawing here. I can make that more clear by saying I can see the "fear" in the tone of your posts. That tells me 2 things.

#1. He can see the fear and he is going to use it the best way he knows how.

#2. A part of me "see's" you may not be ready for this.

I need to know you are ready for this.. we may push a 8 1/2 on the scale we talked about. I just want to know if you are OK with that.

The "distance" that you two have.. does not seem to have changed things.

In my mind.. he has become more.. "vindictive".

So the opposite of distance is closeness. I don't want you in his face.. but I want you sitting in the truck.

If you need to be prepared.. we can help with that.

If you want to sit back and wait... we will support you.

If you think its time something happened... I can help you.

I want you to think.. and let us know.