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Oh man!! I WISH my husband would come mow my lawn! I rented this monstrosity of a house because he wanted the yard that it offered. Buster, you rock!

SMW

I mowed mine too...my wife's out of town for the week...claims she's staying with a female friend of hers ... not that I believe it.

SMW, I will come by and mow your lawn for you.

Well done Buster, keep up the good work. I am assuming she will notice the work...don't do something if you won't get credit.

yeah she'll notice. it was a jungle (not done for 3 weeks). she'll be here soon. wish me some luck.

this was the first time since we split up where she didn't see me for a whole 24 hours plus

That may also explain her breakdown on the phone...

Think up a good casual response if she thanks you for cutting the lawn...something mature and casual...hmmm

Maybe "well I would prefer my kids didn't have to play in a jungle.."

No, sounds too critical...she may take offence. I think you will come up with somthing good.

I read on another forum a story about a guy with a young wife who actually went to OM's PARENTS house and told on him. lol

The parents called the OM to their home and all four of them sat down ( no wife there, she was out of the loop ) and the parents made OM apologize and promise to leave his wife alone. lol

How embarassing would that be!? To have your mommy call you and say "You are sleeping with some other man's wife...get your ass home...you have some explaining to do!" I wonder if they grounded him! lol

Anyways, I just saw some similarities here ... not likely that this would happen for your OM situation, but it was a funny story to hear.

It also demonstrates the immaturity that OM live with. Violating homes and being scolded by his parents like he's a child. Just terrible.

Anyways, best of luck with your db'ing..sounds like you have it all under control.

family of OM used to be great friends with W's family.....not anymore.....OM's parents are aware of situation, W's family said they hope they never run into his parents or they'll get a piece or two of their minds.

when i dropped S off, wife said thank you for mowing the lawn, I said "well i had a bit of free time." she asked if it was hot today, replied yes. said I was glad she had a good time....she was being quiet with me the whole time though. i said "everything ok?" she said yeah and started looking around everywhere but at me. hmmm..............

concealing something i reckon

She could just be having doubts about the situation she's put herself in and is embarassed...there is a lot of shame in people having affairs, but they bury all of that along with their pain, guilt, and anger...its all buried in them. It begins to make them anxious and stressed out after several months span and they begin to break down.

Give her time,she'll get there.