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Feel better!! Summer colds are the worst!

I am glad your kids are communicating with your H. You are right, that part is about them and their emotional status, not about your M. Good job separating that!

I am feeling a bit better this morning. So glad it is Thursday but would be happier if it were Friday. I got myself thinking when I went to visit gForce on his thread. His wife is trying to stop the divorce again. Anyway, I was saying how my L kept saying that there is a way to stop all of this. I asked him how and he said you could get remarried. My first reaction is WTF?? I am already married , why don't we just save ourselves the hassle, and fix it now.

But the marriage that was is dead. It deserves to be buried. The Divorce sometimes just has to happen. Any new relationship deserves a clean slate even if the relationship happens to be with former spouse. Not saying that will happen with me but it makes sense( to me anyway).

Make a great day everybody.

kat

Nothing majorly exciting going on in my life. My days are starting to fill up with dr appointments for the kids and enrollment for school. Can't understand why for the high school they only have day hours to enroll, no after work hours. So I will have to ask for a bunch of time off which I hate to do but I really don't want to ask H for help. The less I have to do with him now the better.

Someday, I may not care, but right now I am too raw.

kat

Poor, g. I haven't been able to keep up with his thread over there. I thought I was on a roller coaster.

Be well, Kat. You are what I call "good people."

Poor me? Don't pity me. Mr. Bluebird's on my shoulder!

No pity, kind sir.

It's just the ups and downs. I shouldn't comment because I haven't kept up.

Actually, I'm envious.

Sorry for the high jack, Kat.

Not a problem. It is always nice when someone gets good news and he deserves alot of kudos. Feel free to hijack as often as necessary!

kat

((Kat))

Slow morning on the boards today.... how are you doin/feeling today Kat??

L2

Yea, kat, what's up? Sorry I have been caught up in another bruhaha the last couple of days. But are you OK? Sounds like you have been going strong and the absence of H has been good for you. Let us know!

Just tired today, didn't sleep well. I seem to do better emotionally when I don't see H. This is his weekend and the most I can hope for is a few hours by myself. He still isn't good at keeping the kids occupied by himself so he usually hangs out at his Mom's house so she can entertain them. He just doesn't realize what he is missing.

Don't have any major plans, just going to try and tackle a couple of rooms in the house. Just don't seem motivated but I know it would be good for me to do.

kat