i can't go dark 100% because we have a 22 month old son and we're constantly dropping him off and picking him up at each other's place.......i have stopped calling and texting her, also asking where she is going. how much more dark can I go without neglecting my son's well being ? he can't speak for himself. p.s. = closest barnes and noble is an hour away. i have to stick to the internet and this site until the books get here. BUT, she did come here to get our son tonight, i avoided sounding or seeming overly excited to see her. I looked at her a lot less and noticed she was watching me as I did everything. She was really nice as she has of late, telling me she'll see me tomorrow and have a good night. but i played it cool and backed off. she asked what i was doing tonight and i said going to the gym. all in all i hope i played it right.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
i can't go dark 100% because we have a 22 month old son and we're constantly dropping him off and picking him up at each other's place.......i have stopped calling and texting her, also asking where she is going. how much more dark can I go without neglecting my son's well being ? he can't speak for himself. p.s. = closest barnes and noble is an hour away. i have to stick to the internet and this site until the books get here. BUT, she did come here to get our son tonight, i avoided sounding or seeming overly excited to see her. I looked at her a lot less and noticed she was watching me as I did everything. She was really nice as she has of late, telling me she'll see me tomorrow and have a good night. but i played it cool and backed off. she asked what i was doing tonight and i said going to the gym. all in all i hope i played it right.
Even better next time: "I'm going to the gym, and then out for a little bit."
Well done buster, you seem to have the idea...AND you were observing her behaviour too, you are doing everything right.
Any idea why she would be watching you so intently? Why did she come to your place this time?
This is promising I think, but you would have to gauge her mood..you write as if you are gradually having some impact and making her think a bit about you...keep wearing her down B!
And yes that's a nice touch PDT. Give her something to wonder about...it teases her and makes you more interesting...and that does appear to be working..
Why is she asking you where you're going? If your relationship is over there wouldn't be any need. These subtle signs all look quite positive.
she usually comes to my place because i live in town and she doesn't.....i offer to drop him off at her place but its a bit out of the way and she works 3 minutes from where i live. a month ago when i was a sobbing mess, pleading for her to come back, she wouldn't ask me how i was, what i was doing, or say good night or sleep tight.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
she usually comes to my place because i live in town and she doesn't.....i offer to drop him off at her place but its a bit out of the way and she works 3 minutes from where i live. a month ago when i was a sobbing mess, pleading for her to come back, she wouldn't ask me how i was, what i was doing, or say good night or sleep tight.
just a bit to throw in.......stopped by our house to get our son this morning when she went to work. she got to work and texted me saying "just wanted to thank you again so much for the lilies (i sent them 2 weeks ago; finally died). i sent back a smiley face and she asked "are you ok? you seem different the past couple days" i responded "i'm good. have a good day" it is so weird to have her inquire about me
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
