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took everyone's advice, wrote a full letter, front page and back outlining where I went wrong, how i'm here for her, only care about my family, all good things. she's still pissed at me so I figured instead of texting or forcing her to listen to me on the phone, she can read the letter when she's up to it. of course knowing her, something in it will piss her off and i'll hear about it come 7am today. wish me luck. i'm at the end of the rope with her i believe. at first when i tried talking to her about this she said she didn't want to hear it.

Tell her divorce isn't what is best for your family - statistics have proven that.

Tell her you will be going to marriage counselling arranged thorugh your church and that she is welcome to participate.

TEll her you love her and your family and are doing everything you can to save them and invite her to do the same...NICELY.

Don't argue, don't respond to brick wall comments...shrug them off.

Dude don't put in writing that you were using drugs...don't put ANYTHING in WRITING...get hte letter back and stop writing her letters...

Don't do impulsive stuff like that.

Always always always talk to her if you can.

Don't hand her a letter she can use against you in court..you wrote up every mistake you made? Do you want to lose custody of your child?

Get the letter back.

crap you're right, thanks mark