She is getting comfortable...that is also a good sign!
Comfortable or forgetful... I know I shouldn't do it but I have walked around the house with my shirt off since I started getting in shape.. and it's not like i haven't seen her naked before, just that she doesn't want me to see her anymore.. I guess keep monitoring the situation, and keep with my PMA and GAL'ing and see if anything further develops..
I think she is curious about alot of stuff.. I asked for her opinion on some new cologne i bought " that's nice, smells good" was her response.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Went to the gym... with W... we drove in the truck together... first time in same vehicle in a long time. Once we got to the gym, we went in the change rooms and then went our own way... as I was filling my water bottle, W walks by me and smiles. Later after workout , i was downstairs doing ab workouts... caught W looking..
Later we went to grocery store to pickup groceries.. got along well.. then W mentioned "that one exercise you were doing looked hard"
I said "you saw that?"
anyways W just took dogs for a walk, i am going to bed.. weird night.. was kind of nice just being nice
Went to the gym... with W... we drove in the truck together... first time in same vehicle in a long time. Once we got to the gym, we went in the change rooms and then went our own way... as I was filling my water bottle, W walks by me and smiles. Later after workout , i was downstairs doing ab workouts... caught W looking..
Later we went to grocery store to pickup groceries.. got along well.. then W mentioned "that one exercise you were doing looked hard"
I said "you saw that?"
anyways W just took dogs for a walk, i am going to bed.. weird night.. was kind of nice just being nice
I will follow pisces suit and send my W, a pisces good vibes for today
Hey there! Honestly it was not my first card or letter to my H, so I have no idea why this one seemed to "get through" or if it even was the card itself.
Honestly, I've been a DB failure much of the time, so not sure I'm an example. But I also believe that no one knows our sitch or our spouse as good as us. So get your DB advice but listen to your heart too. Honestly, I did not originally feel it was time to give it, but when he told me he was filing the next day, I sort of felt like I had nothing to lose.
I think her noticing you at the gym was a GREAT thing! Keep your GAL up, and PMA.
Chris
I just kept it about what I was doing "keeping the faith, why I had faith, and that I was not going anywhere". I didn't ask him for anything, no expectations. Maybe that was the switch? I don't know.
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!
Hey there! Honestly it was not my first card or letter to my H, so I have no idea why this one seemed to "get through" or if it even was the card itself.
Honestly, I've been a DB failure much of the time, so not sure I'm an example. But I also believe that no one knows our sitch or our spouse as good as us. So get your DB advice but listen to your heart too. Honestly, I did not originally feel it was time to give it, but when he told me he was filing the next day, I sort of felt like I had nothing to lose.
I think her noticing you at the gym was a GREAT thing! Keep your GAL up, and PMA.
Chris
I just kept it about what I was doing "keeping the faith, why I had faith, and that I was not going anywhere". I didn't ask him for anything, no expectations. Maybe that was the switch? I don't know.
Sorry if I sounded rude, when i asked for someone to answer me so i didn't feel like i was talking to myself :P
I am thinking about leaving a card of some sort for W before I goto Washington State for a week.. maybe drop something on her bed sunday night before i goto bed. Any ideas.. i was thinking something along the lines of " thinking of you" .. or something like that. " Hi W, I hope you enjoy your week. I'll be thinking of you from afar" ...
I am honestly not sure.. and whether i should or not.
Going to the gym together (smiling both times she saw me)
and then going shopping together and she even came into the TV room for awhile last night and sat right beside me on the sofa. Those might be good signs, but there is 25 miles left on a 26 mile track..
The gym has become my haven, it gets all my stress out, and I look forward to it each day.
On another note we dropped the price of the house today..
I was very much a DB failure the first month , then i discovered this site.. I know regardless, i am going in the right direction
Ummm yes...if a woman does not want you to see her naked, you won't see her...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
