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She just texted back and we had a brief conversation. yes to play date with the puppy on Sunday but on the way down on Friday night I will stop in so we can go see the new Batman movie. We had talked about that three weeks ago and she still wanted to do that.

It was only about 4 texts long but she beat me to the end and was very abrupt. I hate that part. It’s like we are both just sitting on our couches testing but now it has to be over, ok whatever. But I am smart enough to know that it was a good thing over all and I am not going to let that hang over my head. Kind of like beggars can't be choosers except I no longer see myself as a beggar.

Bottom line, two more opportunities to be her friend, support school and keep my mouth shut. Making them sweet friendly, but brief encounters, hopefully leaving her wanting more or something like that.


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Bottom line, two more opportunities to be her friend, support school and keep my mouth shut. Making them sweet friendly, but brief encounters, hopefully leaving her wanting more or something like that.


I think you have got it right there JWS!


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I am glad I could help!! I think your idea to give him time to make the next conversation happen is a solid one. if for some reason he won't then we will hatch out other ways to talk to him later but for now giving him time is good.


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I know, it's so hard though... (sigh)


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yeah problem has not been getting it right its keeping it right, but thats what you guys are for


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I know, I appreciate finding this board everyday, there is no way I would have got this far without it! You guys are great. Well, bedtime for me, it's half 11 here and I have work tomorrow (boo)


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Good night and enjoy work even though its work


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Hey JWS, just seeing how things are going with your situation. Hope all is well.

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Bottom line, two more opportunities to be her friend, support school and keep my mouth shut. Making them sweet friendly, but brief encounters, hopefully leaving her wanting more or something like that.


Julia had it right.....these are your times to shine "casually"


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Originally Posted By: JWS
Bottom line, two more opportunities to be her friend, support school and keep my mouth shut.


Do you have any tips on how you do that? I've not been good at that so far.


It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb

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